"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What did I do wrong?

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alright, i am transfering to a new school and during registration i meet this new girl. she helps out for the school and shows new people around and ****. so we chat for like 5 minutes. the next day of registration i see her again and we have a good talk for like 10 minutes and she was laughing and it looked like she was enjoying talking to me. the whole time shes giving me good body language and smiling and ****. so then today was the first day of school and i see her in the halls. and i say whats up and we talk for a second and then i say give me your number and then she's like "no, not right now... sorry" WTF????????????????????? I seriously do not understand what i did wrong. i dont know how i couldve done it any better. this makes no sense. please tell me whats going on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by LaDanian Tomlinson
give me your number
hey girl.. "give me your number"


???


if you have a chance to talk to her again, ask her for it... don't be like... "give me your number"

more like

"nice talkin to you.. but i have to go to class, can i talk to you later? what's your number?"
 
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ahhhh **** man. i shouldve said that.

but, still, why would she say no? saying "give me your number" cant be enough for her to say no. i heard that if you say "can i have your number" shows weakness and gives her prizability. so thats why i said give me your number.

but i still dont know why she said no?
 

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Bell maybe, you couldve talked to after school about the number... since she said no between classes
 

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You were too eager maybe?

I don't know the situation enough.

But maybe you should of waited for her to invite you to go hang out, at like lunch or something. You don't always have to start up a convo everytime you see a chick. Just a hi will work.

There is still hope though. Just wait around.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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anyone else know why she said no?
 

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Well she did say not right now. At least you have some chance. Just do the basics:
Kino, talk to her about her, say that you like the same things so you two have something in common, be seen with other girls, C&F, eye contact, etc.
Then at the end of one of your convos ( AND MAKE SURE that you say this when she is on a HIGH, like when she is laughing and having a good time. As soon as she has a good time you want to take it away from her leaving her wanting more) just say something along the lines of:
"I have to get going, but it was nice talking to you. Why don't you write your e-mail for me?" AS she is writing her e-mail say "Go ahead and write your number too"
Works everytime.

AND finally the most important part:
LET US KNOW HOW IT GOES!
 
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alright guys, thanks for the help. i appreciate it.
 

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Originally posted by Phat
Bluelemond...Wow man thank u so much for posting that link. Man u saved me. wow...after reading that. Im going to approach like every girl. Man u are a life saver man. thank u sooo much for posting it. the guy who started this threat should read it to.

what link?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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