"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What colognes do ghetto'ish girls like?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol, i kno weird question, maybe way too specific. Eh, theres a story to it, theres this cute cuban girl that ive been hitting on and I saw her unexpectedly outside of school and well and she gave me a hug and well I smelled like b.o. cuz i wasn't out to impress anyone. my god i'm so fukkkin stupid, I just want to make up for it when i see her in school and thought ghettoish girls would be more attracted to a different cologne then a ass white girl with freckeles and red hair.
 

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You're thinking way too much into this. As long as you don't overdo it you can wear anything or nothing. Either way just be sure that you've taken a shower and put on some deodorant in the morning.
 

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More than 2 seconds of thought on this matter is over-analysing. And it's kinda like asking what kinda cheese a ladybug eats.

Stick to regular colognes buddy, don't go out of your way to match your smell with this womans tastes.

I'm getting good feedback from the ladies over Hugo Boss No.7 :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Unforgivable" by Sean John, it's new and ghetto/black chicks dig it. You can always ask a girl cuz they like to talk about fashion.
 

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There are some of the DUMBEST people born circulating this forum...and you my friend are one of them. Please refrain from procreating. Thank you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Anything.

Hell, just go to the dollar store and spray of a litre of some crap. If she ax you: just say it's some very expensive type like: Chanel for Men.

How's she gonna be able to tell the difference?
 

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Parfume de Weed Smoke by Sativa
 

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Do hood rats care? They you care what they think? Treat em like what they are.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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naaaa man the girls that are a tiny bit ghettoish in my school arent hoodrats, they proubly take better care of themselves then the breakfast club preppy cheerleader types. I hate those, I really like to go for cute cuban or italian girls.

*edit...not hoodrats but a little on the slutty side
 
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