"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What colognes do ghetto'ish girls like?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol, i kno weird question, maybe way too specific. Eh, theres a story to it, theres this cute cuban girl that ive been hitting on and I saw her unexpectedly outside of school and well and she gave me a hug and well I smelled like b.o. cuz i wasn't out to impress anyone. my god i'm so fukkkin stupid, I just want to make up for it when i see her in school and thought ghettoish girls would be more attracted to a different cologne then a ass white girl with freckeles and red hair.
 

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You're thinking way too much into this. As long as you don't overdo it you can wear anything or nothing. Either way just be sure that you've taken a shower and put on some deodorant in the morning.
 

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More than 2 seconds of thought on this matter is over-analysing. And it's kinda like asking what kinda cheese a ladybug eats.

Stick to regular colognes buddy, don't go out of your way to match your smell with this womans tastes.

I'm getting good feedback from the ladies over Hugo Boss No.7 :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Unforgivable" by Sean John, it's new and ghetto/black chicks dig it. You can always ask a girl cuz they like to talk about fashion.
 

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There are some of the DUMBEST people born circulating this forum...and you my friend are one of them. Please refrain from procreating. Thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anything.

Hell, just go to the dollar store and spray of a litre of some crap. If she ax you: just say it's some very expensive type like: Chanel for Men.

How's she gonna be able to tell the difference?
 

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Parfume de Weed Smoke by Sativa
 

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Do hood rats care? They you care what they think? Treat em like what they are.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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naaaa man the girls that are a tiny bit ghettoish in my school arent hoodrats, they proubly take better care of themselves then the breakfast club preppy cheerleader types. I hate those, I really like to go for cute cuban or italian girls.

*edit...not hoodrats but a little on the slutty side
 
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