kickureface
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what "rules" change when you get a gf? im talking about a lot of things, like no buying flowers to....yes buying them etc.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what changes when you get a gf
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
absolutely nothing.
the only real rule that changes is that you are now tied to one pvssy until the end of the relationship.
haha i'm not a relationship kinda guy. but you shouldnt change much. what you're doing right now seems to be working on her, why change it?
and the girl i'm kinda with gets super pissed wheni flirt with other girls..so u mgiht have to keep flirting down abit. w/e.
the only real rule that changes is that you are now tied to one pvssy until the end of the relationship.
haha i'm not a relationship kinda guy. but you shouldnt change much. what you're doing right now seems to be working on her, why change it?
and the girl i'm kinda with gets super pissed wheni flirt with other girls..so u mgiht have to keep flirting down abit. w/e.
Mission: He wasn't asking how a girlfiend changes your life, he was asking if his game should be any different around her.
In my opinion when you have a girlfriend you need to open up just a little bit more, the DJ mindset doesn't let someone get very close to the real you and if you have a relationship without some sort of deep emotional connection then the girl is going to start wondering about it and be unhappy.
I am curious to see what anyone that has been in a LTR has to say about this/anyone with more experience then me. Right now I've had a girlfriend for around a week (and it's been wonderful.. heh) and she is adicted to me and I don't want to **** this up for a long time.
In my opinion when you have a girlfriend you need to open up just a little bit more, the DJ mindset doesn't let someone get very close to the real you and if you have a relationship without some sort of deep emotional connection then the girl is going to start wondering about it and be unhappy.
I am curious to see what anyone that has been in a LTR has to say about this/anyone with more experience then me. Right now I've had a girlfriend for around a week (and it's been wonderful.. heh) and she is adicted to me and I don't want to **** this up for a long time.
Well I'm not sure if you should go to that extreme. For one once you are truly a DJ it accually becomes part of your personality and becomes a part of who you are. Granted still have your own hobbies and interests but the way you present yourself and talk to people will have changed dramatically.
If you back down and start loosing your edge the relationship will suffer. It's all about finding the balence between staying confident and a man and opening yourself up so the relationship doesn't feel cheap.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.