"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What cause negative thoughts??

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maxtro

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Negative thoughts are caused by negative experiences. It's as simple as that. A person who hasn't gone through a lot of bad events is generally happier than somebody who has had bad stuff.

My youngest brother is turning 14 soon and he is a lot more happy go lucky than me and my 22 year old brother were at that age. Why do I think that is? It's because his parents weren't fighting and didn't get divorced and they live together. He's my half brother and he has a much more stable and happy life than me and my 22 year old brother had.

Both me and my brother are pretty screwed up and he even attempted suicide. I believe that our parents getting divorced messed up both our childhoods. His got even more messed up because we moved to live with our Dad when he was 10 and our Dad remarried and they had a son soon after. So all of a sudden he's no longer with his mom, and he was no longer the baby.

We haded our half-brother for several years. Now I love the kid and he's my little kid brother who looks up to me, but my other brother still talks to him with anger in his words.

Getting back on topic. If my parents didn't get divorced and had a happy marriage, I think I would be very similar to how my half-brother is now.
 
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Unhappiness and dissatisfaction.

When you feel powerless, you give in to the negative thoughts.
They then imprint themselves, and become a dynamo, feeding off themselves,a dn working themselves into your body.


You need to look at how to replace those with positive energy and optimism, and taking back control of your life.
Believe me, it's not all your 'fault'.

Most of the people you see next to you are in the same boat as you.
Some hide it better than others.

In addition, it is hard to fight back a belief when you see thousands of people giving you evidence to the contrary.


Find the CAUSE of POSITIVE THOUGHTS.
And do that
HAVE THEM, instead of the NEGATIVE one.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Negative thoughts are a product of your environments and how you were raised. It's how you were taught to be as a person. This stuff is habit. It's deep in the subconcious and it has to be reprogrammed or replaced with positive thinking.

Most people who think negative don't even know any other way of thinking. It's up to you to find out what to change and how to change it. It looks like you're already beginning to search.
 
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