"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What can I do to NOT think about sex, starting a relationship, and women in general?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CharmaLeo

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Pregnancy. 18 years of child support. Alemony. Endless whinning from the ho. Is that what you're asking?
 

AFCinBC

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lol you guys are so helpfull.

A good method of controlling your thought process is to actually write down on a piece of numbered paper your goals... for example mine would prolly look something like.

1. Financial independance
2. Attain good credit
3. Attend acredited university
4. start my own company
5. make my first million
6. go sky diving
7 fly a plane

you get the idea then once you have it down (notice I didnt put women on the list because they dont really matter)
just try to take a snap shot of it with your mind once you get a good picture of the list in your head repeat it a couple of times and every morning remember to picture your list and how you are going to attain these things in your head.

This is a good way to create positive decision strategies.
Hope it helps.
 

AFCinBC

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O yeah and this will help get women outa ur head... cause if your thinking about furthering yourself and attaining your goals you wont have time to think about what a loser you are... you will be doing what you love or working twords it and thats what gets you women...
 

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It's obviously that easy AFC, that's why so many people have done this already and rid themselves of females!:rolleyes:

Achieve a goal, be true to yourself rather and notice that girls fall down a few notches on the importance list.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diplomatic_lie

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Become a monk. Go to Tibet. Sit in the same spot for the next 400 years to meditate on the meaning of a leaf.

Why do you want to give up women anyway?
 
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