Eighth Passenger
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What can I do to NOT think about sex, starting a relationship, and women in general?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol you guys are so helpfull.
A good method of controlling your thought process is to actually write down on a piece of numbered paper your goals... for example mine would prolly look something like.
1. Financial independance
2. Attain good credit
3. Attend acredited university
4. start my own company
5. make my first million
6. go sky diving
7 fly a plane
you get the idea then once you have it down (notice I didnt put women on the list because they dont really matter)
just try to take a snap shot of it with your mind once you get a good picture of the list in your head repeat it a couple of times and every morning remember to picture your list and how you are going to attain these things in your head.
This is a good way to create positive decision strategies.
Hope it helps.
A good method of controlling your thought process is to actually write down on a piece of numbered paper your goals... for example mine would prolly look something like.
1. Financial independance
2. Attain good credit
3. Attend acredited university
4. start my own company
5. make my first million
6. go sky diving
7 fly a plane
you get the idea then once you have it down (notice I didnt put women on the list because they dont really matter)
just try to take a snap shot of it with your mind once you get a good picture of the list in your head repeat it a couple of times and every morning remember to picture your list and how you are going to attain these things in your head.
This is a good way to create positive decision strategies.
Hope it helps.
O yeah and this will help get women outa ur head... cause if your thinking about furthering yourself and attaining your goals you wont have time to think about what a loser you are... you will be doing what you love or working twords it and thats what gets you women...
It's obviously that easy AFC, that's why so many people have done this already and rid themselves of females!
Achieve a goal, be true to yourself rather and notice that girls fall down a few notches on the importance list.
Achieve a goal, be true to yourself rather and notice that girls fall down a few notches on the importance list.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Become a monk. Go to Tibet. Sit in the same spot for the next 400 years to meditate on the meaning of a leaf.
Why do you want to give up women anyway?
Why do you want to give up women anyway?