Eighth Passenger
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What can I do to NOT think about sex, starting a relationship, and women in general?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lol you guys are so helpfull.
A good method of controlling your thought process is to actually write down on a piece of numbered paper your goals... for example mine would prolly look something like.
1. Financial independance
2. Attain good credit
3. Attend acredited university
4. start my own company
5. make my first million
6. go sky diving
7 fly a plane
you get the idea then once you have it down (notice I didnt put women on the list because they dont really matter)
just try to take a snap shot of it with your mind once you get a good picture of the list in your head repeat it a couple of times and every morning remember to picture your list and how you are going to attain these things in your head.
This is a good way to create positive decision strategies.
Hope it helps.
A good method of controlling your thought process is to actually write down on a piece of numbered paper your goals... for example mine would prolly look something like.
1. Financial independance
2. Attain good credit
3. Attend acredited university
4. start my own company
5. make my first million
6. go sky diving
7 fly a plane
you get the idea then once you have it down (notice I didnt put women on the list because they dont really matter)
just try to take a snap shot of it with your mind once you get a good picture of the list in your head repeat it a couple of times and every morning remember to picture your list and how you are going to attain these things in your head.
This is a good way to create positive decision strategies.
Hope it helps.
O yeah and this will help get women outa ur head... cause if your thinking about furthering yourself and attaining your goals you wont have time to think about what a loser you are... you will be doing what you love or working twords it and thats what gets you women...
It's obviously that easy AFC, that's why so many people have done this already and rid themselves of females!
Achieve a goal, be true to yourself rather and notice that girls fall down a few notches on the importance list.
Achieve a goal, be true to yourself rather and notice that girls fall down a few notches on the importance list.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Become a monk. Go to Tibet. Sit in the same spot for the next 400 years to meditate on the meaning of a leaf.
Why do you want to give up women anyway?
Why do you want to give up women anyway?