"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What can I do to make sure that I don't sit on my ass and jack off all day?

PRiSM92289

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I have read all that stuff about setting goals and do have goals for the summer:

* Create dates for the 3 HBs that I #/sn closed
* Study for my ACT and get a 36
* Follow my lifting/cardio schedule
* Research colleges and look up colleges essays
* Read some really good books (starting with Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich"
* Go out when I get my jr license, and hang out as much as possible

But I still find my self sitting at home and loooking at pictures of Kiera Knightly. Now Im not a total AFC, I have had my success, but I thirst more, I just dont know how to transition from surfing the mindless maze of the internet to being somebody.

Im thinking of starting a journal of sorts which I would update for a 21 day period (3 weeks to make/break a habit) inwhich I would follow my goals, but Im not sure if its the best course of action to follow.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I also have to say Up Your ****ing Ass on this.
 

PRiSM92289

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Awesome so what do you plan on sticking in there?

on a more serious note .. I solved the problem
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PRiSM92289

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why do u think I was looking up pics with her

I cant decided who is the hotter chick, her or Keeley Hazell

anyway my solution was to get a job. Im applying at this icecream store where I know HBs work at
 

amoka

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Ice cream store is your best bet as at now.
 
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"What can I do to make sure that I don't sit on my ass and jack off all day?"

Sit on your hands and you'll fix your fixation!!! :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Even if they don't take you, get another job. Best thing that can happen to any young man.
 

iLoveCookies

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Wow that doesnt sound like you are going to be busy this summer and this is why I hate you. I hope you die in a barn fire :cuss:

Between work, summer school (starts Monday) & gym and study, I never have time to go out
 
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