"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What can I do to make sure that I don't sit on my ass and jack off all day?

PRiSM92289

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I have read all that stuff about setting goals and do have goals for the summer:

* Create dates for the 3 HBs that I #/sn closed
* Study for my ACT and get a 36
* Follow my lifting/cardio schedule
* Research colleges and look up colleges essays
* Read some really good books (starting with Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich"
* Go out when I get my jr license, and hang out as much as possible

But I still find my self sitting at home and loooking at pictures of Kiera Knightly. Now Im not a total AFC, I have had my success, but I thirst more, I just dont know how to transition from surfing the mindless maze of the internet to being somebody.

Im thinking of starting a journal of sorts which I would update for a 21 day period (3 weeks to make/break a habit) inwhich I would follow my goals, but Im not sure if its the best course of action to follow.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I also have to say Up Your ****ing Ass on this.
 

PRiSM92289

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Awesome so what do you plan on sticking in there?

on a more serious note .. I solved the problem
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PRiSM92289

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why do u think I was looking up pics with her

I cant decided who is the hotter chick, her or Keeley Hazell

anyway my solution was to get a job. Im applying at this icecream store where I know HBs work at
 

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Ice cream store is your best bet as at now.
 
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"What can I do to make sure that I don't sit on my ass and jack off all day?"

Sit on your hands and you'll fix your fixation!!! :rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Even if they don't take you, get another job. Best thing that can happen to any young man.
 

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Wow that doesnt sound like you are going to be busy this summer and this is why I hate you. I hope you die in a barn fire :cuss:

Between work, summer school (starts Monday) & gym and study, I never have time to go out
 
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