"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What can I do to make sure that I don't sit on my ass and jack off all day?

PRiSM92289

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I have read all that stuff about setting goals and do have goals for the summer:

* Create dates for the 3 HBs that I #/sn closed
* Study for my ACT and get a 36
* Follow my lifting/cardio schedule
* Research colleges and look up colleges essays
* Read some really good books (starting with Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich"
* Go out when I get my jr license, and hang out as much as possible

But I still find my self sitting at home and loooking at pictures of Kiera Knightly. Now Im not a total AFC, I have had my success, but I thirst more, I just dont know how to transition from surfing the mindless maze of the internet to being somebody.

Im thinking of starting a journal of sorts which I would update for a 21 day period (3 weeks to make/break a habit) inwhich I would follow my goals, but Im not sure if its the best course of action to follow.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I also have to say Up Your ****ing Ass on this.
 

PRiSM92289

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Awesome so what do you plan on sticking in there?

on a more serious note .. I solved the problem
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PRiSM92289

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why do u think I was looking up pics with her

I cant decided who is the hotter chick, her or Keeley Hazell

anyway my solution was to get a job. Im applying at this icecream store where I know HBs work at
 

amoka

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Ice cream store is your best bet as at now.
 
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"What can I do to make sure that I don't sit on my ass and jack off all day?"

Sit on your hands and you'll fix your fixation!!! :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Even if they don't take you, get another job. Best thing that can happen to any young man.
 

iLoveCookies

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Wow that doesnt sound like you are going to be busy this summer and this is why I hate you. I hope you die in a barn fire :cuss:

Between work, summer school (starts Monday) & gym and study, I never have time to go out
 
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