What can I do to help this situation?

[Bigtrucker2008]

Ok, there's this girl i kinda wanna get to know. I am kinda cool with her, but i know her friends better. I am not 100% sure, but I think she knows I like her.

My question is how can I help this situation? I mean, I wanna get to know her, but I don't wanna be too obvious or seem like I'm REALLY REALLY trying to come on to her. And the thing is even though I think she knows, I also have a feeling that she doesnt care. That type of stuff doesn't happen to me.(If people are attracted to you a lot, you probably know what I mean.)

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

I diagnose your post as ONEITIS.
It's quite an unhealthy disease, but you came here for a cure and that's the first step.

Just tell her "hey we gotta chill sometime", and invite her to hang out with you at some place.

The idea here is to be cool about it by not seeming like you want her, that way you're REALLY REALLY not trying to come on to her.

 

[Bigtrucker2008]

Uh, I'm not really sure what you mean by "oneitis" cuz I'm new to this forum stuff, sorry......but um, I'm thinking of something else though. I mean, your reply was ok, but I'm thinking of more a "smooth, mature" approach. I just need SOMETHING. Not a "fifteen year old kid" approach.

 

[tubagiant89]

I don't know, but the "15 year old approach" works. You need to get to know her better if you want a chance.
ONEITIS, if I'm not mistaken, is when you obsess over one person, disregarding others. It is bad.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Oneitis is when you like one girl. it's sorta a disease in a way lol.
Also, AFC is an acronym for Average Frustrated Chump.

And if you want SOMETHING from me, don't take my 5 words a "fifteen year old kid approach."

 

[Bigtrucker2008]

This is over now. But I gotta say two things:

1. I got her. Turns out she's been diggin me the whole time. I can't really describe a particular "approach" I used. Just being me. And I know how to get ladies.

2. I don't have "oneitis". Yeah, that is pretty bad. The last time I had "oneitis" was when I was a younger kid. Terrible "disease", lol. But nah, I'm a vet at this. I just needed something for that particular situation.