"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What can I do to help this situation?

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Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, there's this girl i kinda wanna get to know. I am kinda cool with her, but i know her friends better. I am not 100% sure, but I think she knows I like her.

My question is how can I help this situation? I mean, I wanna get to know her, but I don't wanna be too obvious or seem like I'm REALLY REALLY trying to come on to her. And the thing is even though I think she knows, I also have a feeling that she doesnt care. That type of stuff doesn't happen to me.(If people are attracted to you a lot, you probably know what I mean.)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I diagnose your post as ONEITIS.
It's quite an unhealthy disease, but you came here for a cure and that's the first step.

Just tell her "hey we gotta chill sometime", and invite her to hang out with you at some place.

The idea here is to be cool about it by not seeming like you want her, that way you're REALLY REALLY not trying to come on to her.
 
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Uh, I'm not really sure what you mean by "oneitis" cuz I'm new to this forum stuff, sorry......but um, I'm thinking of something else though. I mean, your reply was ok, but I'm thinking of more a "smooth, mature" approach. I just need SOMETHING. Not a "fifteen year old kid" approach.
 
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I don't know, but the "15 year old approach" works. You need to get to know her better if you want a chance.
ONEITIS, if I'm not mistaken, is when you obsess over one person, disregarding others. It is bad.
 
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Oneitis is when you like one girl. it's sorta a disease in a way lol.
Also, AFC is an acronym for Average Frustrated Chump.

And if you want SOMETHING from me, don't take my 5 words a "fifteen year old kid approach."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is over now. But I gotta say two things:

1. I got her. Turns out she's been diggin me the whole time. I can't really describe a particular "approach" I used. Just being me. And I know how to get ladies.

2. I don't have "oneitis". Yeah, that is pretty bad. The last time I had "oneitis" was when I was a younger kid. Terrible "disease", lol. But nah, I'm a vet at this. I just needed something for that particular situation.
 
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