"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What can I do to get more exposure to meeting women?

captain55

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i am extremely busy with my career and there aren’t a lot of women that I work with.

What can I do to run into significantly more 8’s and 9’s? Day game? Hit the mall a few times a week? Join a club? I go out Friday and Saturday nights and may find one girl I like 1 out of 3 times going out but I feel like I’m wasting so much potential. I want to find a way to run into hot women during the week...without going out of my way to do it.

Any suggestions? Starbucks...coffee shops...clubs? Hell I’ll join a ****ing yoga class I don’t care
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Honestly, if you don't meet random women through the day or don't work with lots of women then you have to run social circle game.

If you have female friends, ask them to put you on there friends or ask your guy friends to hook you up ECT social circle is really your only option at this point.
 

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Honestly, if you don't meet random women through the day or don't work with lots of women then you have to run social circle game.

If you have female friends, ask them to put you on there friends or ask your guy friends to hook you up ECT social circle is really your only option at this point.
I never knew if it was ok to ask women to hook you up with their hot friends or not. Is that a thing?
 

Chi Town

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I never knew if it was ok to ask women to hook you up with their hot friends or not. Is that a thing?
Of course, done it and seen it since teenage years, social circle is even easier if you status in your circle.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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i am extremely busy with my career and there aren’t a lot of women that I work with.
Dating coworkers is cowardice, begging for a HR complaint, and plain lazy. Reeks of low testosterone.

Hit on babes. Go get girls. No excuse fir not hitting on 3girls a day. Be direct. Be indirect. Be a combo of both.

Everyone's working on a career. The difference is that, my **** won't suck itself.

Step your game up kuz.

What can I do to run into significantly more 8’s and 9’s? Day game? Hit the mall a few times a week? Join a club?
Start a 30 day challenge.

Jump on tinder but know that it reeks of low hanging fruit (single mom's, attention *****s, cratered SMV, epiphany phase, baby rabies fatties, etc). Begin 2019 with a gym membership. Do a group class once a week. Take a class in cooking, learn a new language, take a class at a community college in a subject you want to learn about.

Take more risks. Be bold.

I go out Friday and Saturday nights and may find one girl I like 1 out of 3 times going out but I feel like I’m wasting so much potential. I want to find a way to run into hot women during the week...without going out of my way to do it.
Chain gun cold approach. Spam girls. Obviously, calibrate. Cultivate lifestyle. You want to be "that guy," the man who just chats up babes day or night everywhere. I am breaking rapport. I chat up women assuming attraction and delusional as ****kkk, as if i smashed her rotten and nutted on her face (more than once). As in, ZERO ****S GIVEN.

Act accordingly.

Any suggestions? Starbucks...coffee shops...clubs? Hell I’ll join a ****ing yoga class I don’t care
I have been propositioned by barely legal, nearly jail bait in a grocery store. I have picked up in the club, bars, and the gym. I have pulled on a college campus.

Location is irrelevant. I am that guy. I am a strike out king. Smash or next.

Blow me or blow me out.

I don't care about rejection as, low sex drive means #next!

New girls are turning 18 everyday.

I just lead. She follows or next. Its about compliance. Her ability to follow translates well in the bedroom (and outside).
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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I never knew if it was ok to ask women to hook you up with their hot friends or not. Is that a thing?
Girls know more girls. They have friends. A hot younger sister.

A "friend" is expected to put your best interest forth otherwise, she's a attention ***** and should be discarded like manipulatece piece's trash. dtf or introducing ne to her hawtttt young friends or i next her once done trolling her.
 
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