"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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unistork

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Well I got a call from my friend who said that this girl who I was good friends with, asked him what happened to me, she thought I was on vacation or something and he said that I was let go and she wouldn't believe him but then I told him to give her my number so she would call me. I don't know if he's lying to me but what can I do? Should I just see if she calls but I really don't think he'll give her my number so should I find a way to contact her myself?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ScrewIt

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huh wtf? your post makes absolute no sense to me
 

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lol i know its not like shes a princess or anything.. but I will feel hurt to lose her as a friend because even though we dont hook up i really dont care but she's an awesome girl to be friends with and I wanna keep in touch with her
 

Vincent

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Please rephrase your question in the form of a question.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let me rephrase it.

This woman named Christina who I was good friends with went up to my friend and asked him "Where is Mike? (me), Is he on vacation leave or something?" and my friend said "No, he was let go a few days ago" and she wouldn't believe him but he tells her that I don't work there anymore. So then my friend calls me up to tell this and I tell him to give her my number so she can call me, however, I don't think he will have the galls to go up and just give her my number, so how can *I* get in touch with Christina because she was a really great friend and I really enjoyed her as a friend and it would be a big loss for us not to be friends anymore.
 

Bussey

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Go to your former place of work, and say "Hey, whats your number?"

I don't see the dilema....
 

Bussey

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Don't have access? What is this, the FBI?
Where did you work. I'll know what to do!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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