Well I got a call from my friend who said that this girl who I was good friends with, asked him what happened to me, she thought I was on vacation or something and he said that I was let go and she wouldn't believe him but then I told him to give her my number so she would call me. I don't know if he's lying to me but what can I do? Should I just see if she calls but I really don't think he'll give her my number so should I find a way to contact her myself?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What can I do now?
- Thread starter unistork
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Here' what you do. You stop reading into **** like this and go one with your life.
lol i know its not like shes a princess or anything.. but I will feel hurt to lose her as a friend because even though we dont hook up i really dont care but she's an awesome girl to be friends with and I wanna keep in touch with her
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Let me rephrase it.
This woman named Christina who I was good friends with went up to my friend and asked him "Where is Mike? (me), Is he on vacation leave or something?" and my friend said "No, he was let go a few days ago" and she wouldn't believe him but he tells her that I don't work there anymore. So then my friend calls me up to tell this and I tell him to give her my number so she can call me, however, I don't think he will have the galls to go up and just give her my number, so how can *I* get in touch with Christina because she was a really great friend and I really enjoyed her as a friend and it would be a big loss for us not to be friends anymore.
This woman named Christina who I was good friends with went up to my friend and asked him "Where is Mike? (me), Is he on vacation leave or something?" and my friend said "No, he was let go a few days ago" and she wouldn't believe him but he tells her that I don't work there anymore. So then my friend calls me up to tell this and I tell him to give her my number so she can call me, however, I don't think he will have the galls to go up and just give her my number, so how can *I* get in touch with Christina because she was a really great friend and I really enjoyed her as a friend and it would be a big loss for us not to be friends anymore.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.