"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What can i do for my Girlfriends and My 1st Year anerversiarry

Chelsea823

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Ok so our first year anerversiarry is coming up next month and im not too sure on what to surprise her with.

Im always surprising her with flowers unexpectedly or turning up to her work with a balloon and cookies, taking her to dinners and so forth.

My girlfriend is a Catholic so we are not sexually active and her mother wouldnt approve of us staying the night away together so thats of the list.

Help mee!!!!! :( Please :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So, do we ban instantly or wait to see where this troll is taking us?
 

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last time i had a relationship worth celebrating an anniversary for is when i was 16.....i got my GF a very cool Active shirt for like $30...

she was a really cute skater chick(the kind who just rocks the shoes and clothes but cant actually skate)

and she loved it....


do something simple like that, dont go overboard remember your not married...
 

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Actually, since this was brought up, what is genuinely the consensus for relationship landmarks?
 

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i Understand that but im not 16, im late 18 and she is 19, It may not be 'serious' cause of our age, but she is my First Love
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Iceberg said:
So, do we ban instantly or wait to see where this troll is taking us?
Stupid post is stupid.

But hey OP, get her something that shows you really know her.

For instance, I really like soccer, and id love if a girl got me a really top of the line soccer ball or a Real Madrid jersey
 

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Ciel said:
Actually, since this was brought up, what is genuinely the consensus for relationship landmarks?
I'm not gonna lie. I don't even remember what I did with my current girl. I didn't even get her anything. To be honest I think we just went out to Applebees and had dinner. Wasn't fancy but we enjoyed ourselves. (Means I actually do remember) Later that night we went to a party a buddy of mine was hosting and he knew of our 1 year and asked what we did? I told him and he said, "That's it?" In my mind I'm like god you idiot whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Heh. The GF and I had a nice laugh about it and I fvcked her good later in the night. So take it for what its worth but I didn't dazzle her with anything special. Definitely do like that about her since she didn't seem to care that much, but maybe she did. Eh.

Worth noting I got her a card for our 6 month (d'oh). But she is big on postcards and stuff like that so I didn't really see the harm in it. She gave me one as well the next time I saw her.
 

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if you often get her flowers then do something different. Organise a day out together, something you know she'd like or something you've never done together before. I went canoeing with a couple of mates the other day, it was actually really fun! We had a pub lunch after, it was a lovely day out! So something like that.

Or yeah something thoughtful, like if you have any in-jokes or whatever, or something that shows you've remembered her saying something, that's always a sure-fire blow job.
 
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