"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What can i do for my Girlfriends and My 1st Year anerversiarry

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Ok so our first year anerversiarry is coming up next month and im not too sure on what to surprise her with.

Im always surprising her with flowers unexpectedly or turning up to her work with a balloon and cookies, taking her to dinners and so forth.

My girlfriend is a Catholic so we are not sexually active and her mother wouldnt approve of us staying the night away together so thats of the list.

Help mee!!!!! :( Please :)
 

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So, do we ban instantly or wait to see where this troll is taking us?
 

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last time i had a relationship worth celebrating an anniversary for is when i was 16.....i got my GF a very cool Active shirt for like $30...

she was a really cute skater chick(the kind who just rocks the shoes and clothes but cant actually skate)

and she loved it....


do something simple like that, dont go overboard remember your not married...
 

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Actually, since this was brought up, what is genuinely the consensus for relationship landmarks?
 

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i Understand that but im not 16, im late 18 and she is 19, It may not be 'serious' cause of our age, but she is my First Love
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Iceberg said:
So, do we ban instantly or wait to see where this troll is taking us?
Stupid post is stupid.

But hey OP, get her something that shows you really know her.

For instance, I really like soccer, and id love if a girl got me a really top of the line soccer ball or a Real Madrid jersey
 

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Ciel said:
Actually, since this was brought up, what is genuinely the consensus for relationship landmarks?
I'm not gonna lie. I don't even remember what I did with my current girl. I didn't even get her anything. To be honest I think we just went out to Applebees and had dinner. Wasn't fancy but we enjoyed ourselves. (Means I actually do remember) Later that night we went to a party a buddy of mine was hosting and he knew of our 1 year and asked what we did? I told him and he said, "That's it?" In my mind I'm like god you idiot whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Heh. The GF and I had a nice laugh about it and I fvcked her good later in the night. So take it for what its worth but I didn't dazzle her with anything special. Definitely do like that about her since she didn't seem to care that much, but maybe she did. Eh.

Worth noting I got her a card for our 6 month (d'oh). But she is big on postcards and stuff like that so I didn't really see the harm in it. She gave me one as well the next time I saw her.
 

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if you often get her flowers then do something different. Organise a day out together, something you know she'd like or something you've never done together before. I went canoeing with a couple of mates the other day, it was actually really fun! We had a pub lunch after, it was a lovely day out! So something like that.

Or yeah something thoughtful, like if you have any in-jokes or whatever, or something that shows you've remembered her saying something, that's always a sure-fire blow job.
 
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