"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

What can i do for my Girlfriends and My 1st Year anerversiarry

Chelsea823

New Member
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Ok so our first year anerversiarry is coming up next month and im not too sure on what to surprise her with.

Im always surprising her with flowers unexpectedly or turning up to her work with a balloon and cookies, taking her to dinners and so forth.

My girlfriend is a Catholic so we are not sexually active and her mother wouldnt approve of us staying the night away together so thats of the list.

Help mee!!!!! :( Please :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
So, do we ban instantly or wait to see where this troll is taking us?
 

irocknike23

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 27, 2011
Messages
383
Reaction score
9
Age
35
Location
Los Angeles CA
last time i had a relationship worth celebrating an anniversary for is when i was 16.....i got my GF a very cool Active shirt for like $30...

she was a really cute skater chick(the kind who just rocks the shoes and clothes but cant actually skate)

and she loved it....


do something simple like that, dont go overboard remember your not married...
 

Ciel

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 11, 2011
Messages
76
Reaction score
5
Location
London
Actually, since this was brought up, what is genuinely the consensus for relationship landmarks?
 

Chelsea823

New Member
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
i Understand that but im not 16, im late 18 and she is 19, It may not be 'serious' cause of our age, but she is my First Love
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Jaylan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 8, 2011
Messages
3,119
Reaction score
133
Iceberg said:
So, do we ban instantly or wait to see where this troll is taking us?
Stupid post is stupid.

But hey OP, get her something that shows you really know her.

For instance, I really like soccer, and id love if a girl got me a really top of the line soccer ball or a Real Madrid jersey
 

Upside

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2008
Messages
397
Reaction score
16
Location
I'm still looking
Ciel said:
Actually, since this was brought up, what is genuinely the consensus for relationship landmarks?
I'm not gonna lie. I don't even remember what I did with my current girl. I didn't even get her anything. To be honest I think we just went out to Applebees and had dinner. Wasn't fancy but we enjoyed ourselves. (Means I actually do remember) Later that night we went to a party a buddy of mine was hosting and he knew of our 1 year and asked what we did? I told him and he said, "That's it?" In my mind I'm like god you idiot whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Heh. The GF and I had a nice laugh about it and I fvcked her good later in the night. So take it for what its worth but I didn't dazzle her with anything special. Definitely do like that about her since she didn't seem to care that much, but maybe she did. Eh.

Worth noting I got her a card for our 6 month (d'oh). But she is big on postcards and stuff like that so I didn't really see the harm in it. She gave me one as well the next time I saw her.
 

CuriousGirl

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 28, 2010
Messages
338
Reaction score
9
Location
England
if you often get her flowers then do something different. Organise a day out together, something you know she'd like or something you've never done together before. I went canoeing with a couple of mates the other day, it was actually really fun! We had a pub lunch after, it was a lovely day out! So something like that.

Or yeah something thoughtful, like if you have any in-jokes or whatever, or something that shows you've remembered her saying something, that's always a sure-fire blow job.
 
Top