You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That all they can offer is sex?wayword said:Oh, cut the BS people...generally speaking for Americanized women - the OP & Luke Skywalker are right.
yet nobody says what girls can offer bessides sexAshley Chuckles said:Come on man... be real about this... there are lots of things that chicks can offer
You're misunderstanding some of the DJ concepts really... it's not about being a loner, it's about being independent and not NEEDING a chick... you can enjoy yourself without a chick, but being with a cool chick is great too and not only because of the pvssy...
Fuk'n rightmexican_player2 said:my girl bought an x box with 30 games, so whenever i go with her i play ...so besides sex she offers me her x box AND she makes dinner for me
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
My point exactly! They offer a LOT and yet nobody can DEFINE what those things are! They offer flirting which leads to sex. They offer sexual experience to men. Thats the ONLY thing they can offer to men!mexican_player2 said:yet nobody says what girls can offer bessides sex
if he ask a question, answer it instead of attacking him and not answering
Hey man...you could always marry a guy and have a girl as a mistress. Men only understand men, right?Babnik said:My point exactly! They offer a LOT and yet nobody can DEFINE what those things are! They offer flirting which leads to sex. They offer sexual experience to men. Thats the ONLY thing they can offer to men!
If goal in life = women then you are a complete AFC and your advice is worthless.pornstar88 said:what girls offer besides sex. Comfort,love,friendship,birth,fullfillment in life (every guys goal in life is women), cooks food,laughter,women are the sunshine in the family(all the good things in a family are from women trust me),motherhood(your moms a woman and your woman is gonna be a mom someday),optimism(alot of women can shed a good light on any situation your dealing with), unconditional love(if your lucky), religion(they are good to talk to about this), politics(just cuz she doesnt agree with you dont make her obsolete),cuddiling,good feeling inside(when you have a woman you have this), smooching (self explanatory), fun( you can have fun with a woman), learning( you can learn from women) ect...
You just gotta be opened minded
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Freddy1 said:It depends on the women. I agree that most have shallow goals in life although I have encounter some exceptional women in my life. Some of the women had some real talent.
-Like one I met in the summer who was a university student major in classical music and could really play classical piano compositions.
-Ive have met a theatre performance dancer.
-Ive also met a beautiful trapeze performer
-Ive have met some highly educated women as well (a psychologist, a teacher, )
-Ive met a artist who really realy painted well
-last week I met a girl who was a professional athlete and also worked as a model for some major photographers.
Its good to find women who actually have some real goals in life and mentally healthy.
Dont forget there are some very smart women out there too. There are some very educated women comming out of universities etc. who could hold an intellectual debate with a guy. Its good to find a women who you could have a discussion about on the same level.Babnik said:But how can those things be used by MEN? I am not saying women have nothing to offer the world! I am saying that to MEN they have nothing to offer but sexual experience!
Well, OK...but like thats what any other man can offer. I am saying that woman as a being, as something different from man can ONLY offer sex.Freddy1 said:Dont forget there are some very smart women out there too. There are some very educated women comming out of universities etc. who could hold an intellectual debate with a guy. Its good to find a women who you could have a discussion about on the same level.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
(I'm not sure I interpret your statement correctly or not???? So bear with me.)Babnik said:Well, OK...but like thats what any other man can offer. I am saying that woman as a being, as something different from man can ONLY offer sex.
Sexual experience...Freddy1 said:(I'm not sure I interpret your statement correctly or not???? So bear with me.)
I would say the ability to give birth to a child. I suppose if we want kids one day.
I was speaking from a scientific standpoint, males of all sprecies main goal in life is mating with mutiple women. SO dont try that afc crap with me. And dont act like getting women isnt one of your goals, cuz for you to find this site you had to search using a phrase like "how to get girls" and if you were refered by someone to this site you had to ask them something like "how do i get girls to like me" and the whole reason this site is made is for answering those questions for chumps like you whos whole goal in life is to know "how to get girls". SON!!!Babnik said:If goal in life = women then you are a complete AFC and your advice is worthless.
Babnik said:Well, OK...but like thats what any other man can offer. I am saying that woman as a being, as something different from man can ONLY offer sex.
Babnik said:Thats an awful thing, man. You need to KNOW how to do those things, but primarily my mom does those kind of things.
It also has NOTHING to do with being a man. Hell, they teach you this kind of discipline in the ARMY!!!
But support is not given by women. Its given by men to women. Which leaves love and thus sex as the only use for them.
All you who called me stupid - back up your statement!
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.