"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

What can a woman OFFER besides sex?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Babnik

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 24, 2006
Messages
783
Reaction score
1
wayword said:
Oh, cut the BS people...generally speaking for Americanized women - the OP & Luke Skywalker are right.
That all they can offer is sex?
 
Joined
Jun 20, 2006
Messages
274
Reaction score
2
my girl bought an x box with 30 games, so whenever i go with her i play ...so besides sex she offers me her x box AND she makes dinner for me
 
Joined
Jun 20, 2006
Messages
274
Reaction score
2
Ashley Chuckles said:
Come on man... be real about this... there are lots of things that chicks can offer

You're misunderstanding some of the DJ concepts really... it's not about being a loner, it's about being independent and not NEEDING a chick... you can enjoy yourself without a chick, but being with a cool chick is great too and not only because of the pvssy...
yet nobody says what girls can offer bessides sex

if he ask a question, answer it instead of attacking him and not answering
 

Man Of Adventure

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 21, 2001
Messages
586
Reaction score
4
Age
41
Location
Illinois USA
mexican_player2 said:
my girl bought an x box with 30 games, so whenever i go with her i play ...so besides sex she offers me her x box AND she makes dinner for me
Fuk'n right
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Babnik

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 24, 2006
Messages
783
Reaction score
1
mexican_player2 said:
yet nobody says what girls can offer bessides sex

if he ask a question, answer it instead of attacking him and not answering
My point exactly! They offer a LOT and yet nobody can DEFINE what those things are! They offer flirting which leads to sex. They offer sexual experience to men. Thats the ONLY thing they can offer to men!
 

pornstar88

Banned
Joined
Dec 30, 2006
Messages
67
Reaction score
0
Babnik is not a dj. I can tell your a nerd dude, why the hell would you try and discuss politics with a chick dude. YOu need to discuss common interest.

Plus bush is a fag
 

pornstar88

Banned
Joined
Dec 30, 2006
Messages
67
Reaction score
0
what girls offer besides sex. Comfort,love,friendship,birth,fullfillment in life (every guys goal in life is women), cooks food,laughter,women are the sunshine in the family(all the good things in a family are from women trust me),motherhood(your moms a woman and your woman is gonna be a mom someday),optimism(alot of women can shed a good light on any situation your dealing with), unconditional love(if your lucky), religion(they are good to talk to about this), politics(just cuz she doesnt agree with you dont make her obsolete),cuddiling,good feeling inside(when you have a woman you have this), smooching (self explanatory), fun( you can have fun with a woman), learning( you can learn from women) ect...

You just gotta be opened minded
 

Man Of Adventure

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 21, 2001
Messages
586
Reaction score
4
Age
41
Location
Illinois USA
Babnik said:
My point exactly! They offer a LOT and yet nobody can DEFINE what those things are! They offer flirting which leads to sex. They offer sexual experience to men. Thats the ONLY thing they can offer to men!
Hey man...you could always marry a guy and have a girl as a mistress. Men only understand men, right? :p

All joking aside man: I really do hope you find a girl you can respect. It will take time.
 

Babnik

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 24, 2006
Messages
783
Reaction score
1
pornstar88 said:
what girls offer besides sex. Comfort,love,friendship,birth,fullfillment in life (every guys goal in life is women), cooks food,laughter,women are the sunshine in the family(all the good things in a family are from women trust me),motherhood(your moms a woman and your woman is gonna be a mom someday),optimism(alot of women can shed a good light on any situation your dealing with), unconditional love(if your lucky), religion(they are good to talk to about this), politics(just cuz she doesnt agree with you dont make her obsolete),cuddiling,good feeling inside(when you have a woman you have this), smooching (self explanatory), fun( you can have fun with a woman), learning( you can learn from women) ect...

You just gotta be opened minded
If goal in life = women then you are a complete AFC and your advice is worthless.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Freddy1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2005
Messages
563
Reaction score
1
It depends on the women. I agree that most have shallow goals in life although I have encounter some exceptional women in my life. Some of the women had some real talent.
-Like one I met in the summer who was a university student major in classical music and could really play classical piano compositions.
-Ive have met a theatre performance dancer.
-Ive also met a beautiful trapeze performer
-Ive have met some highly educated women as well (a psychologist, a teacher, )
-Ive met a artist who really realy painted well
-last week I met a girl who was a professional athlete and also worked as a model for some major photographers.

Its good to find women who actually have some real goals in life and mentally healthy.
 

Babnik

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 24, 2006
Messages
783
Reaction score
1
Freddy1 said:
It depends on the women. I agree that most have shallow goals in life although I have encounter some exceptional women in my life. Some of the women had some real talent.
-Like one I met in the summer who was a university student major in classical music and could really play classical piano compositions.
-Ive have met a theatre performance dancer.
-Ive also met a beautiful trapeze performer
-Ive have met some highly educated women as well (a psychologist, a teacher, )
-Ive met a artist who really realy painted well
-last week I met a girl who was a professional athlete and also worked as a model for some major photographers.

Its good to find women who actually have some real goals in life and mentally healthy.

But how can those things be used by MEN? I am not saying women have nothing to offer the world! I am saying that to MEN they have nothing to offer but sexual experience!
 

Freddy1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2005
Messages
563
Reaction score
1
Babnik said:
But how can those things be used by MEN? I am not saying women have nothing to offer the world! I am saying that to MEN they have nothing to offer but sexual experience!
Dont forget there are some very smart women out there too. There are some very educated women comming out of universities etc. who could hold an intellectual debate with a guy. Its good to find a women who you could have a discussion about on the same level.
 

Babnik

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 24, 2006
Messages
783
Reaction score
1
Freddy1 said:
Dont forget there are some very smart women out there too. There are some very educated women comming out of universities etc. who could hold an intellectual debate with a guy. Its good to find a women who you could have a discussion about on the same level.
Well, OK...but like thats what any other man can offer. I am saying that woman as a being, as something different from man can ONLY offer sex.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Freddy1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2005
Messages
563
Reaction score
1
Babnik said:
Well, OK...but like thats what any other man can offer. I am saying that woman as a being, as something different from man can ONLY offer sex.
(I'm not sure I interpret your statement correctly or not???? So bear with me.)

I would say the ability to give birth to a child. I suppose if we want kids one day.
 

Babnik

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 24, 2006
Messages
783
Reaction score
1
Freddy1 said:
(I'm not sure I interpret your statement correctly or not???? So bear with me.)

I would say the ability to give birth to a child. I suppose if we want kids one day.
Sexual experience...
 

pornstar88

Banned
Joined
Dec 30, 2006
Messages
67
Reaction score
0
Babnik said:
If goal in life = women then you are a complete AFC and your advice is worthless.
I was speaking from a scientific standpoint, males of all sprecies main goal in life is mating with mutiple women. SO dont try that afc crap with me. And dont act like getting women isnt one of your goals, cuz for you to find this site you had to search using a phrase like "how to get girls" and if you were refered by someone to this site you had to ask them something like "how do i get girls to like me" and the whole reason this site is made is for answering those questions for chumps like you whos whole goal in life is to know "how to get girls". SON!!!

And since you have such a high post count and been here for so long you cant tell me your not dedicated to getting women.LOL

SO PIMP GET YA MIND RIGHT!!!lol lmao
 

pornstar88

Banned
Joined
Dec 30, 2006
Messages
67
Reaction score
0
Babnik said:
Well, OK...but like thats what any other man can offer. I am saying that woman as a being, as something different from man can ONLY offer sex.

if you put it like that than thats reversible. Cuz women can say the same about men. There is all kinds of exceptions to this statement.LOL


If you keep talkin like that women are gonna not like you and beat you down boy!!! lol :trouble:

This is not a "woman hater" club this is the dj forum, SPANKY!(go join the little rascals)lol
 

sparky0000

Banned
Joined
Apr 27, 2006
Messages
669
Reaction score
4
Babnik said:
Thats an awful thing, man. You need to KNOW how to do those things, but primarily my mom does those kind of things.

It also has NOTHING to do with being a man. Hell, they teach you this kind of discipline in the ARMY!!!

But support is not given by women. Its given by men to women. Which leaves love and thus sex as the only use for them.

All you who called me stupid - back up your statement!

it is a great thing. i come from a long line of males who never allowed themselves to do those things. i would prefer a 5'9 girl with size 24' waist and big blue eyes to do those things for me. i know where to find them as well :rock: these days i think you pretty much need to move to the former soviet union to find girls who actually want to take care of you. in ukraine it is part of the culture for a man to be served by his wife or girlfriend. it is an insult to most girls if you try to help her do things. it has nothing to do with her wanting your money. just part of the culture.

the army is for followers. i am not a follower. the army is simply an extension of high school football and fraternity life. the toughest thing in life is to be your own man. the army teaches you to be somebody else's man.

support is not given by men. if you need support as a man then you are a puss. i f*** up a lot. probably more than most of you. however, i love myself. most of you hate yourselves. i don't need anyone to tell me that i am special. my key is that i learned not to give a damn if i screw up or make a fool of myself. it happens. as long as i am doing something that others are not doing i am content with myself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top