"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What Book Has Gotten You Laid the Most?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No book. No book will do the work for you and all them pretty much say the same thing. You can boil it down to 1) taking action 2) it will either happen or it doesn't
 

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No book. No book will do the work for you and all them pretty much say the same thing. You can boil it down to 1) taking action 2) it will either happen or it doesn't
Have you read Cat in The Hat?.....no more Netflix and chill.....its all about Dr.Seuss and Chill
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WTF has happened to this board? (totally rhetorical ?btw).
 

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What has gotten me laid the most in my life is watching what I eat and working out. Nothing I have ever read had a bigger impact than that.
 

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What has gotten me laid the most in my life is watching what I eat and working out.
This is a perfect example of something I've always said: What you need for success is highly individualistic (as opposed to the typical one size fits all "Do this and you'll get laid" PUA advice). It depends on what is holding you back. It may be 50 different things, or it may be one small thing that you can change and see a big difference.

Anyway, I agree with IKO69. Books don't get you laid. Ideas are a nice starting point, but you have to take action. You could take action and do the wrong thing, and probably have more success than learning a good idea and then doing nothing.
 

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This is a perfect example of something I've always said: What you need for success is highly individualistic (as opposed to the typical one size fits all "Do this and you'll get laid" PUA advice). It depends on what is holding you back. It may be 50 different things, or it may be one small thing that you can change and see a big difference.

Anyway, I agree with IKO69. Books don't get you laid. Ideas are a nice starting point, but you have to take action. You could take action and do the wrong thing, and probably have more success than learning a good idea and then doing nothing.
Yep... how you physically show up is half the battle, and something you CAN control. Look good, dress well in clothes that fit your style and body and this will get you through the front door because this is the first thing anyone notices about you. You can have great game, but if you have a beer belly, and look like you just rolled out of bed you'll never get to the starting line.

Get to the starting line first... then you can worry about how to run the race.
 
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