"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What body language do you display, to tell a girl she has a positive effect on you?

Deknife

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When a girl sees me and she immediately takes a quick breath and fixes her posture and smiles giddily to herself, it tells me she's happy/excited to see me. That has a strong effect on me, I see I have a positive effect on her.

But body language should a guy display when he sees a girl enter the room to tell her his spirit is lifted when he sees her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oneboy21

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Watch for this sign too
Look in or look away
if she looks down, you can go talk to her
If she looks away she is not interested in you. If she scratches her face or scratches her eye, she isn't interested.
Also Don't break the eye contact until they break it. Straightly look into her eyes and smile.
 

Chamber36

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From my experience the best body language to show that you're interested is turning toward them, leaning forward and tilting your head sideways to a 60 degree angle.

If she scratches her nose it means she likes what she sees. If she scratches here eyes it's a no-go. Most likely she will just run away though.

All you have to do is be welcoming.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Love's Orphan

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I agree with Aaron B. She will wonder, but thats only if she likes you.
 

Naughty Ninja

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Smile.

hold your head high.

Have good posture.

Be friendly, approachable, and talkative.

Dress well, look clean, smell good.

Pretty simple. If she's still not interested after talking with her. No big deal. No reason to drive yourself insane over it. On to the next.
 
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