"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What body language do you display, to tell a girl she has a positive effect on you?

Deknife

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When a girl sees me and she immediately takes a quick breath and fixes her posture and smiles giddily to herself, it tells me she's happy/excited to see me. That has a strong effect on me, I see I have a positive effect on her.

But body language should a guy display when he sees a girl enter the room to tell her his spirit is lifted when he sees her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oneboy21

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Watch for this sign too
Look in or look away
if she looks down, you can go talk to her
If she looks away she is not interested in you. If she scratches her face or scratches her eye, she isn't interested.
Also Don't break the eye contact until they break it. Straightly look into her eyes and smile.
 

Chamber36

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From my experience the best body language to show that you're interested is turning toward them, leaning forward and tilting your head sideways to a 60 degree angle.

If she scratches her nose it means she likes what she sees. If she scratches here eyes it's a no-go. Most likely she will just run away though.

All you have to do is be welcoming.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Love's Orphan

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I agree with Aaron B. She will wonder, but thats only if she likes you.
 

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Smile.

hold your head high.

Have good posture.

Be friendly, approachable, and talkative.

Dress well, look clean, smell good.

Pretty simple. If she's still not interested after talking with her. No big deal. No reason to drive yourself insane over it. On to the next.
 
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