"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What body language do you display, to tell a girl she has a positive effect on you?

Deknife

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When a girl sees me and she immediately takes a quick breath and fixes her posture and smiles giddily to herself, it tells me she's happy/excited to see me. That has a strong effect on me, I see I have a positive effect on her.

But body language should a guy display when he sees a girl enter the room to tell her his spirit is lifted when he sees her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oneboy21

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Watch for this sign too
Look in or look away
if she looks down, you can go talk to her
If she looks away she is not interested in you. If she scratches her face or scratches her eye, she isn't interested.
Also Don't break the eye contact until they break it. Straightly look into her eyes and smile.
 

Chamber36

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From my experience the best body language to show that you're interested is turning toward them, leaning forward and tilting your head sideways to a 60 degree angle.

If she scratches her nose it means she likes what she sees. If she scratches here eyes it's a no-go. Most likely she will just run away though.

All you have to do is be welcoming.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Love's Orphan

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I agree with Aaron B. She will wonder, but thats only if she likes you.
 

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Smile.

hold your head high.

Have good posture.

Be friendly, approachable, and talkative.

Dress well, look clean, smell good.

Pretty simple. If she's still not interested after talking with her. No big deal. No reason to drive yourself insane over it. On to the next.
 
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