Here at the end of winter I'm noticing that this is my least favorite time of year for dating. We're all Vitamin D deficient, have had more colds than average recently, are paler, probably less muscular, probably less strong, and probably fatter due to winter weight. However I'm curious whether there is a consensus on the worst month for dating. There was a 10 choice max so I had to pair them.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What Are Your Worst Months for Dating?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Agree with winter months, its cold and rainy definitely not in the mood to go out especially if there is some walking involved.
Then some days I have this letargy in late evening that I find myself spending friday night at my place rather than go hunting, it mental lazyness even before phisical one.
Then some days I have this letargy in late evening that I find myself spending friday night at my place rather than go hunting, it mental lazyness even before phisical one.
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Late winter months, lack of sunlight leaves me rather depressed. But winter is when I bulk up as far as lifting weights so the summertime is when I really succeed.
Exactly the same for me. I diet down for summer from Jan - April so I'm always miserable/never in the mood for dating during these months.. plus it's bloody freezing in the UK. Summer is the time to strike...killacam757 said:
VladPatton
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Jan-Dec lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
He never actually said it was cold hahaParad0x said:You live in Texas bro, you can't call your weather cold
Try -40 Celsius (or Fahrenheit, they are the same at -40) with wind factor, now that is cold! We get that from times to times in Montreal
This is interesting. I get relatively 'normal' seasons and I haven't found a pattern of 'slow' months. December I usually get laid quite a bit actually, which coincides with September being BY FAR the month with the most babies being born. Must be the 'cuddle weather'.
The rest of the year just happens as it happens.
The rest of the year just happens as it happens.
SamTheHobit
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Why isn't there an option for January to December?
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I can't imagine minus 40. When the C and F curves intersect, you know you're screwed lol.Parad0x said:You live in Texas bro, you can't call your weather cold
Try -40 Celsius (or Fahrenheit, they are the same at -40) with wind factor, now that is cold! We get that from times to times in Montreal
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Atom Smasher
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We should all go out on the prowl on the solstaces and see if there is some kind of cosmic effect on women, good or bad.
LittleBigOne
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My opinion is that march and april are the worst months. February here is fine because of the carnaval, a few good days too hunt.
March is the end of winter and, like now, the winter takes too long and people get moody. March till the end of april are also months with less events over here.
Spring and especially summer are the best times to me.
March is the end of winter and, like now, the winter takes too long and people get moody. March till the end of april are also months with less events over here.
Spring and especially summer are the best times to me.