Here at the end of winter I'm noticing that this is my least favorite time of year for dating. We're all Vitamin D deficient, have had more colds than average recently, are paler, probably less muscular, probably less strong, and probably fatter due to winter weight. However I'm curious whether there is a consensus on the worst month for dating. There was a 10 choice max so I had to pair them.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What Are Your Worst Months for Dating?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Agree with winter months, its cold and rainy definitely not in the mood to go out especially if there is some walking involved.
Then some days I have this letargy in late evening that I find myself spending friday night at my place rather than go hunting, it mental lazyness even before phisical one.
Then some days I have this letargy in late evening that I find myself spending friday night at my place rather than go hunting, it mental lazyness even before phisical one.
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Late winter months, lack of sunlight leaves me rather depressed. But winter is when I bulk up as far as lifting weights so the summertime is when I really succeed.
Exactly the same for me. I diet down for summer from Jan - April so I'm always miserable/never in the mood for dating during these months.. plus it's bloody freezing in the UK. Summer is the time to strike...killacam757 said:
VladPatton
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Jan-Dec lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
He never actually said it was cold hahaParad0x said:You live in Texas bro, you can't call your weather cold
Try -40 Celsius (or Fahrenheit, they are the same at -40) with wind factor, now that is cold! We get that from times to times in Montreal
This is interesting. I get relatively 'normal' seasons and I haven't found a pattern of 'slow' months. December I usually get laid quite a bit actually, which coincides with September being BY FAR the month with the most babies being born. Must be the 'cuddle weather'.
The rest of the year just happens as it happens.
The rest of the year just happens as it happens.
SamTheHobit
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Why isn't there an option for January to December?
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I can't imagine minus 40. When the C and F curves intersect, you know you're screwed lol.Parad0x said:You live in Texas bro, you can't call your weather cold
Try -40 Celsius (or Fahrenheit, they are the same at -40) with wind factor, now that is cold! We get that from times to times in Montreal
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Atom Smasher
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We should all go out on the prowl on the solstaces and see if there is some kind of cosmic effect on women, good or bad.
LittleBigOne
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My opinion is that march and april are the worst months. February here is fine because of the carnaval, a few good days too hunt.
March is the end of winter and, like now, the winter takes too long and people get moody. March till the end of april are also months with less events over here.
Spring and especially summer are the best times to me.
March is the end of winter and, like now, the winter takes too long and people get moody. March till the end of april are also months with less events over here.
Spring and especially summer are the best times to me.