Here at the end of winter I'm noticing that this is my least favorite time of year for dating. We're all Vitamin D deficient, have had more colds than average recently, are paler, probably less muscular, probably less strong, and probably fatter due to winter weight. However I'm curious whether there is a consensus on the worst month for dating. There was a 10 choice max so I had to pair them.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What Are Your Worst Months for Dating?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Agree with winter months, its cold and rainy definitely not in the mood to go out especially if there is some walking involved.
Then some days I have this letargy in late evening that I find myself spending friday night at my place rather than go hunting, it mental lazyness even before phisical one.
Then some days I have this letargy in late evening that I find myself spending friday night at my place rather than go hunting, it mental lazyness even before phisical one.
killacam757
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Late winter months, lack of sunlight leaves me rather depressed. But winter is when I bulk up as far as lifting weights so the summertime is when I really succeed.
Exactly the same for me. I diet down for summer from Jan - April so I'm always miserable/never in the mood for dating during these months.. plus it's bloody freezing in the UK. Summer is the time to strike...killacam757 said:
VladPatton
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Jan-Dec lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
He never actually said it was cold hahaParad0x said:You live in Texas bro, you can't call your weather cold
Try -40 Celsius (or Fahrenheit, they are the same at -40) with wind factor, now that is cold! We get that from times to times in Montreal
This is interesting. I get relatively 'normal' seasons and I haven't found a pattern of 'slow' months. December I usually get laid quite a bit actually, which coincides with September being BY FAR the month with the most babies being born. Must be the 'cuddle weather'.
The rest of the year just happens as it happens.
The rest of the year just happens as it happens.
SamTheHobit
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Why isn't there an option for January to December?
Mike32ct
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I can't imagine minus 40. When the C and F curves intersect, you know you're screwed lol.Parad0x said:You live in Texas bro, you can't call your weather cold
Try -40 Celsius (or Fahrenheit, they are the same at -40) with wind factor, now that is cold! We get that from times to times in Montreal
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher
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We should all go out on the prowl on the solstaces and see if there is some kind of cosmic effect on women, good or bad.
LittleBigOne
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My opinion is that march and april are the worst months. February here is fine because of the carnaval, a few good days too hunt.
March is the end of winter and, like now, the winter takes too long and people get moody. March till the end of april are also months with less events over here.
Spring and especially summer are the best times to me.
March is the end of winter and, like now, the winter takes too long and people get moody. March till the end of april are also months with less events over here.
Spring and especially summer are the best times to me.