What are your turn off? And how to overcome it?

[Von]

May it be in your dating life

Or life in general

What are your turnoff in dealing with the opposite gender ? And how you overcome it

 

[wifehunter]

pride/arrogance aka evil aka feminism = avoid like the plague

nasty fatties = friendzone

 

[ohrein]

In order of importance; shallow, feminist ideologies, low intelligence.

I can not stand shallow people. Bore me to tears and their priorities are always so far from what I value in life. Feminist should be a no-brainer. Low intelligence because I get bored easily in conversations if people can't keep up or aren't interested with interesting topics.

 

[Bible_Belt]

tuna smell

 

[Serenity]

I'm turned off by women who lack an interest in me regardless of reason, also by women who are incapable of understanding how I feel in various situations. I don't feel motivated to overcome this, I don't want them so I ignore them.

In some cases the women I ignore refuse to respect my decision to not involve myself with them, which I have every right to do regardless of reason. They do what turns me off more than anything in the world, attempt to control and manipulate. I overcome it using any legal way I know of to make them stay the fvck away from me.

Some turn offs I can just walk away from, problem solved. When that doesn't work they get what's coming for them.

I really don't understand why you'd want to "overcome" something that turns you off. If you don't like something then why would you want to force yourself to like it? It wouldn't be true to oneself.

 

[gravityeyelids]

lack of confidence in their body or the bedroom. All girls are insecure to some degree, especially hot ones. But a girl with a filled out body and full a$$ and tits that rocks you in the bedroom and rocks what she has is always hotter to me than an athletic girl with a perfect a$$ that is insecure.

Also: obsession with "shallow" things like social media, twitter, celebrities, reality TV, her phone, gossip, etc. This traits are a one way ticket to the "i will never date you" zone for me. A girl whom i date should also be a good friend that i can have interesting and stimulating conversations and share art and music and movies with.

personal hygiene/ sense of style. I make an effort to be well groomed and take care of my body and mind. She needs to shower regularly and be able to dress better than i do. In my experience girls who often wear sweatpants or don't wear makeup out or dont care about fashion... it only gets worse the longer you know them. Pretty soon you're 5 months into dating and she's lounging around in sweatpants and not showering before sex and my attraction is quickly wearing down.