"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What are your turn off? And how to overcome it?
- Thread starter Von
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
nasty fatties = friendzone
I can not stand shallow people. Bore me to tears and their priorities are always so far from what I value in life. Feminist should be a no-brainer. Low intelligence because I get bored easily in conversations if people can't keep up or aren't interested with interesting topics.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Serenity
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In some cases the women I ignore refuse to respect my decision to not involve myself with them, which I have every right to do regardless of reason. They do what turns me off more than anything in the world, attempt to control and manipulate. I overcome it using any legal way I know of to make them stay the fvck away from me.
Some turn offs I can just walk away from, problem solved. When that doesn't work they get what's coming for them.
I really don't understand why you'd want to "overcome" something that turns you off. If you don't like something then why would you want to force yourself to like it? It wouldn't be true to oneself.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
gravityeyelids
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Also: obsession with "shallow" things like social media, twitter, celebrities, reality TV, her phone, gossip, etc. This traits are a one way ticket to the "i will never date you" zone for me. A girl whom i date should also be a good friend that i can have interesting and stimulating conversations and share art and music and movies with.
personal hygiene/ sense of style. I make an effort to be well groomed and take care of my body and mind. She needs to shower regularly and be able to dress better than i do. In my experience girls who often wear sweatpants or don't wear makeup out or dont care about fashion... it only gets worse the longer you know them. Pretty soon you're 5 months into dating and she's lounging around in sweatpants and not showering before sex and my attraction is quickly wearing down.