what are your chances of a ONS when you go out at night?

[garruk]

im just trying to gain a little realistic perspective...

when you go out to the bars or clubs at night and you're out to spit game, what are your chances (personal opinion) of:

having a conversation with a girl?
getting a (real) phone number?
kissing a girl?
screwing a girl?

for me, i would probably say 100%, 60%, 30%, 1%

just wanted some perspective on this.

 

[YT827]

I'm so good, my percentages are reversed.

 

[Allurre]

100, 90, 90, 85+

 

[Brighty]

I'm so good, my percentages are reversed.

So you have a 0% chance having a conversation with a girl? 40% getting her number, 70% of kissing, and 99% chance of screwing? Do you just lock eyes with a girl and motion to the bathroom and grunt? Pro. :crackup:


If you're talking in terms of just girls you don't know and not bootycalls, at a typical freshman party for me it'd be:

100% chance of conversation
80% chance of getting her number
60% chance of kissing
20-30% chance of screwing

I'm still working on refining my ONS-game (in the sense that I can generate enough attraction and say the right things in the course of an hour or so to get a stranger to come back with me), or maybe I'm just talking to the wrong kind of girls. Most of the time I can't really pull it off on the spot and I find building some rapport throughout the week is a better investment, but typically the rhythm I have going is:

A. Meet a girl at a party over the weekend
B. Chat her up for a while, get her number, maybe dance a bit/make out. Don't really push it much that night unless she's giving me obvious signals or I'm really vibing with her.
C. Text her a few days later and grab lunch with her during the week, fluff talk for the rest of the week.
D. The following weekend we usually go out to a party together and usually ends in some form of sex

I feel like girls are a lot more receptive to this because they don't typically want to be a one night stand (and when they have that last minute resistance they just use the excuse that this isn't a one night stand because we went "out" together and have been "talking") but then again that's just the college perspective I have with the kind of girls I go after and I doubt its similar to bar/club game.

 

[The Spider]

practically zero. most people dont look good enough and virtually zero women have one night stands.

 

[rakishness]

LOL. I say it depends where you go. High priced clubs? Probably close to zero. Only ones really going home are on vacation. Dive bars? Probably like 2 to 3 girls that night are going home with somebody.