Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What are your biggest fears?

Mafiosoman14

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ok everytime I post, I see like 20 people viewed but no one posts so on this post i want everyone to say something. in this post i want everyone to tell me what there fear is that wont let them approach the ladys. or what there fear was and how they overcomed it. if you are a real DJ you dont have one but if you are a DJ then tell people what your fear was and how you got over it.

Everyone has a fear that wont let them approach women, that is basically why you are here, approaching women is the base to being a DJ, well my fear was my acne I had acne pretty bad so i came to this site and looked at alot of things. Nothing worked for my acne i just couldnt get rid of it finnaly i changed my mindset to saying who cares what I look like. after i said this i would just approach women and it wouldnt seem to bother them. so i finnaly stopped caring about my acne and i still got the ladys. SO go out there and just do it. I know my story was short but i want to hear what you guys have to say so lets get this thing going.

Mafiosoman
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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So posting this 3 times is going to achieve what??
 

Mafiosoman14

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LOL hey whats up man! Sorry the server was slow and it kept telling me some shti so i backed up and click post thread and did it again sorry man! go head oak you can be first to tell people what your fear were/or are.
 

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I'll tell you what got me in January. First off that month was the best all year, but if it wasn't for my fear, it would have been the best of my life. Two dream girls, one polish they other ... I don't know but she was hot! Anyways, they were too good for anyone, it was a fact, they were the sh*t. However, after going through a terrible break up, which took place the day of my birthday, I decided to give it a shot, I started talking to them on MSN and within two weeks, it was out, they LOVED me, but I couldn't talk to them in person, I was too afraid to ruin what I had, my self-esteem was on a high, and I didn't want to end that.

So, moral: Don't begin a female conquest on the internet.

& Fear: To afraid to take it to next level, I had no confidence.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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