"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok everytime I post, I see like 20 people viewed but no one posts so on this post i want everyone to say something. in this post i want everyone to tell me what there fear is that wont let them approach the ladys. or what there fear was and how they overcomed it. if you are a real DJ you dont have one but if you are a DJ then tell people what your fear was and how you got over it.

Everyone has a fear that wont let them approach women, that is basically why you are here, approaching women is the base to being a DJ, well my fear was my acne I had acne pretty bad so i came to this site and looked at alot of things. Nothing worked for my acne i just couldnt get rid of it finnaly i changed my mindset to saying who cares what I look like. after i said this i would just approach women and it wouldnt seem to bother them. so i finnaly stopped caring about my acne and i still got the ladys. SO go out there and just do it. I know my story was short but i want to hear what you guys have to say so lets get this thing going.

Mafiosoman
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So posting this 3 times is going to achieve what??
 
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LOL hey whats up man! Sorry the server was slow and it kept telling me some shti so i backed up and click post thread and did it again sorry man! go head oak you can be first to tell people what your fear were/or are.
 
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I'll tell you what got me in January. First off that month was the best all year, but if it wasn't for my fear, it would have been the best of my life. Two dream girls, one polish they other ... I don't know but she was hot! Anyways, they were too good for anyone, it was a fact, they were the sh*t. However, after going through a terrible break up, which took place the day of my birthday, I decided to give it a shot, I started talking to them on MSN and within two weeks, it was out, they LOVED me, but I couldn't talk to them in person, I was too afraid to ruin what I had, my self-esteem was on a high, and I didn't want to end that.

So, moral: Don't begin a female conquest on the internet.

& Fear: To afraid to take it to next level, I had no confidence.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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