"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What are your biggest fears?

Mafiosoman14

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ok everytime I post, I see like 20 people viewed but no one posts so on this post i want everyone to say something. in this post i want everyone to tell me what there fear is that wont let them approach the ladys. or what there fear was and how they overcomed it. if you are a real DJ you dont have one but if you are a DJ then tell people what your fear was and how you got over it.

Everyone has a fear that wont let them approach women, that is basically why you are here, approaching women is the base to being a DJ, well my fear was my acne I had acne pretty bad so i came to this site and looked at alot of things. Nothing worked for my acne i just couldnt get rid of it finnaly i changed my mindset to saying who cares what I look like. after i said this i would just approach women and it wouldnt seem to bother them. so i finnaly stopped caring about my acne and i still got the ladys. SO go out there and just do it. I know my story was short but i want to hear what you guys have to say so lets get this thing going.

Mafiosoman
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So posting this 3 times is going to achieve what??
 

Mafiosoman14

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LOL hey whats up man! Sorry the server was slow and it kept telling me some shti so i backed up and click post thread and did it again sorry man! go head oak you can be first to tell people what your fear were/or are.
 

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I'll tell you what got me in January. First off that month was the best all year, but if it wasn't for my fear, it would have been the best of my life. Two dream girls, one polish they other ... I don't know but she was hot! Anyways, they were too good for anyone, it was a fact, they were the sh*t. However, after going through a terrible break up, which took place the day of my birthday, I decided to give it a shot, I started talking to them on MSN and within two weeks, it was out, they LOVED me, but I couldn't talk to them in person, I was too afraid to ruin what I had, my self-esteem was on a high, and I didn't want to end that.

So, moral: Don't begin a female conquest on the internet.

& Fear: To afraid to take it to next level, I had no confidence.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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