suavesuave
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farting hahahahahahahaahahahHandyAndy said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What Are Your Biggest Fears In Pickup?
- Thread starter Social Calibration
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SharinganUser
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My only fear in Pick Up is that I'll pick up an std. Either that or since I am in bangkok right now, that she will turn out to be a man. :nervous:
Demonicale
Senior Don Juan
My first post 
....it starts right here!!.
Ok i guess my main fears are these 2.
1.fear of approach (not as bad as it was)
2.Conversation ( hahah sounds bad) i never seem to be able to talk well to girls unless i've had alot of alcohol.
....it starts right here!!.Ok i guess my main fears are these 2.
1.fear of approach (not as bad as it was)
2.Conversation ( hahah sounds bad) i never seem to be able to talk well to girls unless i've had alot of alcohol.
Social Calibration
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@ Demonicale - I've noticed that those two reasons are usually the BIGGEST and most common fears that most people start out with. Luckily, it's actually some of the easiest to overcome.
@ Crimsonking - Have you noticed how much you've changed since that post? Was it for better or worse?
@ Crimsonking - Have you noticed how much you've changed since that post? Was it for better or worse?
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That's fricking awesome dude! Hell yeah, that's the kind of stuff I wish I could hear every single day. And you made an excellent point when you said:Cr1msonKing said:
"and am still trying to change and tweak what I can change."
There's always room for improvement so never be settled (with yourself), and always strive for ways to better. There's ALWAYS room for improvement.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.