suavesuave
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farting hahahahahahahaahahahHandyAndy said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What Are Your Biggest Fears In Pickup?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
SharinganUser
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My only fear in Pick Up is that I'll pick up an std. Either that or since I am in bangkok right now, that she will turn out to be a man. :nervous:
Demonicale
Senior Don Juan
My first post 
....it starts right here!!.
Ok i guess my main fears are these 2.
1.fear of approach (not as bad as it was)
2.Conversation ( hahah sounds bad) i never seem to be able to talk well to girls unless i've had alot of alcohol.
....it starts right here!!.Ok i guess my main fears are these 2.
1.fear of approach (not as bad as it was)
2.Conversation ( hahah sounds bad) i never seem to be able to talk well to girls unless i've had alot of alcohol.
Social Calibration
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@ Demonicale - I've noticed that those two reasons are usually the BIGGEST and most common fears that most people start out with. Luckily, it's actually some of the easiest to overcome.
@ Crimsonking - Have you noticed how much you've changed since that post? Was it for better or worse?
@ Crimsonking - Have you noticed how much you've changed since that post? Was it for better or worse?
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That's fricking awesome dude! Hell yeah, that's the kind of stuff I wish I could hear every single day. And you made an excellent point when you said:Cr1msonKing said:
"and am still trying to change and tweak what I can change."
There's always room for improvement so never be settled (with yourself), and always strive for ways to better. There's ALWAYS room for improvement.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.