"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what are you'll opinions on sharing a bachelor pad

mackdaddy27

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does your roommate need to be a wing or fellow PUA to actually make it work ?

just it would be a cost saving idea plus you can get a much nicer place when you share , to actually bring the girls back to...


whats your opinions ? TO share or not to share??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MacAvoy

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If your a player, then make sure your roommate is a player. There are social advantages to having a roommate however if you can afford it, its better to have your own place, unless your roommate is well off as well and you can get a huge kick a$$ pad.

But most roommates end up hating each other after a while.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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The cost savings is seldom worth the aggravation or the restrictions on your livelihood.
 

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living with ur buddies is cool. living with a stranger is a completely different story.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Sandow said:
living with ur buddies is cool. living with a stranger is a completely different story.
Typically your buds will take advantage of you more often than strangers. It's almost as if they were family.
 

Andromax

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Well, roommates are cool if the only space you have to share is a kitchen and laundry.

When you have your own bathroom / bedroom, and only occasionally wake up at 2pm to what you could have sworn was an earthquake, and wonder how his headboard hasn't snapped in half like 4 months ago, then its not that bad.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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MooseGod said:
It's a good way to turn buds into enemies...at least that's been my experience thus far.
Sharing the rent can turn into giving them a loan which they may not repay, that doesn't help the friendship. The problem is that when money is short someone has to pay the rent or else everyone will be kicked out.
 

penkitten

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Sharing the rent can turn into giving them a loan which they may not repay, that doesn't help the friendship. The problem is that when money is short someone has to pay the rent or else everyone will be kicked out.
seen so many other people loose their friendships and homes over this one...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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