"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what are you'll opinions on sharing a bachelor pad

mackdaddy27

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does your roommate need to be a wing or fellow PUA to actually make it work ?

just it would be a cost saving idea plus you can get a much nicer place when you share , to actually bring the girls back to...


whats your opinions ? TO share or not to share??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MacAvoy

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If your a player, then make sure your roommate is a player. There are social advantages to having a roommate however if you can afford it, its better to have your own place, unless your roommate is well off as well and you can get a huge kick a$$ pad.

But most roommates end up hating each other after a while.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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The cost savings is seldom worth the aggravation or the restrictions on your livelihood.
 

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living with ur buddies is cool. living with a stranger is a completely different story.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Sandow said:
living with ur buddies is cool. living with a stranger is a completely different story.
Typically your buds will take advantage of you more often than strangers. It's almost as if they were family.
 

Andromax

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Well, roommates are cool if the only space you have to share is a kitchen and laundry.

When you have your own bathroom / bedroom, and only occasionally wake up at 2pm to what you could have sworn was an earthquake, and wonder how his headboard hasn't snapped in half like 4 months ago, then its not that bad.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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MooseGod said:
It's a good way to turn buds into enemies...at least that's been my experience thus far.
Sharing the rent can turn into giving them a loan which they may not repay, that doesn't help the friendship. The problem is that when money is short someone has to pay the rent or else everyone will be kicked out.
 

penkitten

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Sharing the rent can turn into giving them a loan which they may not repay, that doesn't help the friendship. The problem is that when money is short someone has to pay the rent or else everyone will be kicked out.
seen so many other people loose their friendships and homes over this one...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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