"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what are you'll opinions on sharing a bachelor pad

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does your roommate need to be a wing or fellow PUA to actually make it work ?

just it would be a cost saving idea plus you can get a much nicer place when you share , to actually bring the girls back to...


whats your opinions ? TO share or not to share??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If your a player, then make sure your roommate is a player. There are social advantages to having a roommate however if you can afford it, its better to have your own place, unless your roommate is well off as well and you can get a huge kick a$$ pad.

But most roommates end up hating each other after a while.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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The cost savings is seldom worth the aggravation or the restrictions on your livelihood.
 
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living with ur buddies is cool. living with a stranger is a completely different story.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Sandow said:
living with ur buddies is cool. living with a stranger is a completely different story.
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Typically your buds will take advantage of you more often than strangers. It's almost as if they were family.
 
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Well, roommates are cool if the only space you have to share is a kitchen and laundry.

When you have your own bathroom / bedroom, and only occasionally wake up at 2pm to what you could have sworn was an earthquake, and wonder how his headboard hasn't snapped in half like 4 months ago, then its not that bad.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's a good way to turn buds into enemies...at least that's been my experience thus far.
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Sharing the rent can turn into giving them a loan which they may not repay, that doesn't help the friendship. The problem is that when money is short someone has to pay the rent or else everyone will be kicked out.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Sharing the rent can turn into giving them a loan which they may not repay, that doesn't help the friendship. The problem is that when money is short someone has to pay the rent or else everyone will be kicked out.
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seen so many other people loose their friendships and homes over this one...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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