You're saying that you have no idea whether or not the girl you're dating trusts you?!!?inzone50 said:My gf txt me everyday and ask how my day went and what my plans are when we i'm not with her.
does she miss me or does she not trust me?
how do i handle this situation?
Since she trusts you you may consider telling her that it feels like she doesn't trust you and that you aren't sure if that's her intention. Find out why she's doing it and it will give you a bit more insight into her and your relationship.inzone50 said:she does.
its that its kinda annoying that she asking every single move i make.
Alright, that makes sense. Is there something that you can do to take control of the situation and redirect her from bugging you by texting all of the time?inzone50 said:i think she just misses me. makes her feel more close.
Enough or too much?inzone50 said:i don't know. its not like i can tell her nothing come over. because i spend enough time with her already....
Just for sh1tz n' giggles, why not offer that information straight away and see where the conversation goes? Also, it's not as if you have to answer every one of her calls. You could be busy doing "nothing" y'know.inzone50 said:i redirect the subject sometimes... but still everyday she asks, so how was your day? or what are you doing/did today, what are your plans for tonight. no matter what we talk about it she throws that question in.
no she is my gf. why small talk?penkitten said:she is probably trying to make small talk too
because if there were no small talk at all, she would feel less significant than your girlfriend.inzone50 said:no she is my gf. why small talk?
On Point said:It's nice that she cares and everything but it sounds like she doesn't have much of a life of her own. You should talk to her about it and set some boundaries as far as how much time you want to spend together. Her behavior probably isn't healthy for her either, she needs to work on *her* inner game, lol.