Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Cradle of Filth - Hallowed Be Thy Name (Iron Maiden cover) ITS HELLA SICK DUDE!Originally posted by Kidd
Iron Maiden - Hallowed Be Thy Name
Hallucinogen???????Originally posted by Dirtheart
Hallucinogen - LSD (live mix)
Am I the only goa/psychedelic trance fan here? I guess underground techno/trance/electronic music isn't so big in America eh? Kind of surprised to see Yahel get a mention though.
I like Dire straits!Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
Dire Straits - Sultans of swing
Nice. I love John Petrucci's work. They really are a musican's band.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh sh1t, we got Ice Cube fans on here?! I think hes my favorite rapper ever, I was listening to Death Certificate the other day...Originally posted by Hot Ice
Yes! the ol' CoF!![]()
Currently playing:
Ice Cube - Waitin' Ta Hate
Gotta love the rap of Ice Cube.Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Oh sh1t, we got Ice Cube fans on here?! I think hes my favorite rapper ever, I was listening to Death Certificate the other day...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Im not really a fan of cradle. Their lack of low end and the singer's voice are annoying :/Originally posted by AC/DC
Cradle of Filth - Hallowed Be Thy Name (Iron Maiden cover) ITS HELLA SICK DUDE!
Cradle of Filth - Fear of the Dark (Iron Maiden cover) the part after the solo right before the voice is going "fear of the daaaaaaaark" is SO raw (the same riff goes on during it, about 4:55 to 6:05 in the song... AWESOME ass riff, this group makes it sound SO raw! The rest of the song is better in the original version, but that part just sounds so good...![]()
Is that the Nashawn that was with Nas? He has songs by himself? The only one I heard was the one with Nas on the hook and he was like "Lord, just let a nigga get it"...Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Nashawn-"Only one way up".
Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Is that the Nashawn that was with Nas? He has songs by himself? The only one I heard was the one with Nas on the hook and he was like "Lord, just let a nigga get it"...
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.