I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cradle of Filth - Hallowed Be Thy Name (Iron Maiden cover) ITS HELLA SICK DUDE!Originally posted by Kidd
Iron Maiden - Hallowed Be Thy Name
Hallucinogen???????Originally posted by Dirtheart
Hallucinogen - LSD (live mix)
Am I the only goa/psychedelic trance fan here? I guess underground techno/trance/electronic music isn't so big in America eh? Kind of surprised to see Yahel get a mention though.
I like Dire straits!Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
Dire Straits - Sultans of swing
Nice. I love John Petrucci's work. They really are a musican's band.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Oh sh1t, we got Ice Cube fans on here?! I think hes my favorite rapper ever, I was listening to Death Certificate the other day...Originally posted by Hot Ice
Yes! the ol' CoF!![]()
Currently playing:
Ice Cube - Waitin' Ta Hate
Gotta love the rap of Ice Cube.Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Oh sh1t, we got Ice Cube fans on here?! I think hes my favorite rapper ever, I was listening to Death Certificate the other day...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Im not really a fan of cradle. Their lack of low end and the singer's voice are annoying :/Originally posted by AC/DC
Cradle of Filth - Hallowed Be Thy Name (Iron Maiden cover) ITS HELLA SICK DUDE!
Cradle of Filth - Fear of the Dark (Iron Maiden cover) the part after the solo right before the voice is going "fear of the daaaaaaaark" is SO raw (the same riff goes on during it, about 4:55 to 6:05 in the song... AWESOME ass riff, this group makes it sound SO raw! The rest of the song is better in the original version, but that part just sounds so good...![]()
Is that the Nashawn that was with Nas? He has songs by himself? The only one I heard was the one with Nas on the hook and he was like "Lord, just let a nigga get it"...Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Nashawn-"Only one way up".
Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Is that the Nashawn that was with Nas? He has songs by himself? The only one I heard was the one with Nas on the hook and he was like "Lord, just let a nigga get it"...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.