narcissist
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Just curious... It'll give me some ideas. I don't really wanna drop more than $50-$100. My first christmas with her, so I don't wanna set the bar too high.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What are you guys getting your LTR for christmas?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sazc
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may I recommend some gold earrings from costco (or sams)? All around $100 and you cant go wrong with precious metal. In your case, since the GF is younger, go for the ones that 'drop' more. It's a classy gift.
http://www.costco.com/all-earrings.html?sortBy=PriceMin|0&identifier=
Trainwreck
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**** that, jewelry is for spouses
TheMonkeyKing
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As you've rightly said yourself recently, giving experience is far better than material goods. Especially in this age when everyone has more than they need anyway.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sazc
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Give her a unique experience. Jewellery is too dependent on her taste. No vouchers. That just says you have no imagination.