narcissist
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Just curious... It'll give me some ideas. I don't really wanna drop more than $50-$100. My first christmas with her, so I don't wanna set the bar too high.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What are you guys getting your LTR for christmas?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
sazc
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may I recommend some gold earrings from costco (or sams)? All around $100 and you cant go wrong with precious metal. In your case, since the GF is younger, go for the ones that 'drop' more. It's a classy gift.
http://www.costco.com/all-earrings.html?sortBy=PriceMin|0&identifier=
Trainwreck
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**** that, jewelry is for spouses
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As you've rightly said yourself recently, giving experience is far better than material goods. Especially in this age when everyone has more than they need anyway.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Give her a unique experience. Jewellery is too dependent on her taste. No vouchers. That just says you have no imagination.