narcissist
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Just curious... It'll give me some ideas. I don't really wanna drop more than $50-$100. My first christmas with her, so I don't wanna set the bar too high.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What are you guys getting your LTR for christmas?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sazc
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may I recommend some gold earrings from costco (or sams)? All around $100 and you cant go wrong with precious metal. In your case, since the GF is younger, go for the ones that 'drop' more. It's a classy gift.
http://www.costco.com/all-earrings.html?sortBy=PriceMin|0&identifier=
Trainwreck
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**** that, jewelry is for spouses
TheMonkeyKing
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As you've rightly said yourself recently, giving experience is far better than material goods. Especially in this age when everyone has more than they need anyway.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
sazc
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Give her a unique experience. Jewellery is too dependent on her taste. No vouchers. That just says you have no imagination.