"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What are you guys getting into this weekend?

Warrior74

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So,

I'm sitting at home on a Friday night. working on my business. Everyone is out, people are in town, a few parties are going down. I'm saving money by switching to Geico and being productive (okay, I didn't really switch to Geico. what do I look like? Donald Trump? I got the bootleg insurance.). So since my only date tonight is with a word processor and a database, someone tell me about their awesome weekend adventure.

Speaking Gieco, check this out about the founder.

With his wife, Lillian, Mr. Goodwin worked 12 hours a day for little or no salary for several years to implement his business dream. In 1940, after operating in the red for several years, the company realized its first profit. In 1948, GEICO became publicly owned and today has assets of nearly $7.3 billion.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_Goodwin,_Sr.

BRB gonna find a wife who is willing to be broke for several years.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dear Warrior,
If you aint rich by 39 you never will be!
Me? This afternoon repairing a plates Mower...There will be a tangible fringe benefit there...then take my leading Lady Dancing till midnight...she will sleep over so start Sunday with a little Morning delight...not going to the limit though as I have to save it for another plate for whom I am repairing a Window that afternoon.
 

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it's derby weekend. watching portland game now. derby tomorrow, then taking the son and the wife to see spiderman. then we're throwing a house party tomorrow night, then my son's birthday party sunday (his birthday is monday)
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Warrior,
If you aint rich by 39 you never will be!
Me? This afternoon repairing a plates Mower...There will be a tangible fringe benefit there...then take my leading Lady Dancing till midnight...she will sleep over so start Sunday with a little Morning delight...not going to the limit though as I have to save it for another plate for whom I am repairing a Window that afternoon.
Phuck that noise. Anyway I'm going to be comfortable, not rich. And I can do that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dear Warrior,
Your aspirations are realistic...But reflect that all things are relative,the poorest slob on Welfare over here,in absolute terms,lives a far richer life than Elizabeth the first did in England five hundred years ago...but perhaps happiness and contentment is something you are born with!
 

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got a dinner date at mine lined up for monday, so i am taking the weekend off from going out. Working on clearing out an old orchard at my place, eating well, getting lots of sleep and hanging with some good friends.
Need a nice little reset!
 

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There is a festival in the old town area where I have an office, so some buddies and I took some coolers and a BBQ pit down yesterday morning before they close the streets and we are gonna go hang out in front of my office and drink beer and play giant jenga and see if we can chat up some hotties.

But first, I have to mow the yard and clean the pool filters.
 

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Hitting up NYC with my sister who is flying in for a few days for a medical conference. Having some dinner with her and then walking around town.

Tomorrow hitting up a local brewery with some friends and then later in the night, watching some WWE PPV event.

Not a bad weekend. Not the sexiest weekend, but that's what the weekdays are for.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Warrior,
Your aspirations are realistic...But reflect that all things are relative,the poorest slob on Welfare over here,in absolute terms,lives a far richer life than Elizabeth the first did in England five hundred years ago...but perhaps happiness and contentment is something you are born with!
Right. Rich is relative. I want to get off of this treadmill. I have never been more content then when I had a great market of freelance work, I made a good salary, I had a couple of girls, drinks and dinner with my boys and the money was just THERE for the taking. Even then I wanted to grow that business and do more. Now Id be happy just to get back there again.

I ended up finishing emails about three deals. Texted two clients proofs of their designs and wrote a script for a commercial. Then met a client for a drink and some pool. She wants the D but shes old, fat and entitled as shyt but I do need her to spend some money with me so I humor her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tidying up the house today, going out with a few friends tonight. Tomorrow I have a date with a new chick I'm seeing. I'm taking her to the museum (I have a free pass for tomorrow) and then I'm gonna bring her back to my place and fvck the 5hit out of her. She's got a mediocre face, but her body is nice and she's fun as hell to be with.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Warrior,
If you aint rich by 39 you never will be!.
Nonsense. Material changes have to be made to change one's earning capacity. Sometimes these changes are sparked by a catalyst--usually a life-changing hardship.

Wealth is created the first 10- 15 years, followed by prudent investing.

Warrior, whether 39 or 55, if you believe you will financially prosper, you will. I started from scratch six years ago, following a financial disaster. I hold no professional licenses. I'm self-employed. And as life throws its hard balls, I throw them right back even harder.
 

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guru1000 said:
Nonsense. Material changes have to be made to change one's earning capacity. Sometimes these changes are sparked by a catalyst--usually a life-changing hardship.

Wealth is created the first 10- 15 years, followed by prudent investing.

Warrior, whether 39 or 55, if you believe you will financially prosper, you will. I started from scratch six years ago, following a financial disaster. I hold no professional licenses. I'm self-employed. And as life throws its hard balls, I throw them right back even harder.

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I'm fulfilling orders today and I just landed a video editing gig from a referral. It was a good productive weekend so I can't complain.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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won a good bit of money yesterday at the derby (see http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=213897). didn't take kid to the movies yesterday so he's all mad and **** lol so tomorrow i'm going to keep him out of school and spend the day with him. about to have his birthday party in 2 hours. i'm looking forward to it we're going to swimming
 
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Friday worked, flew in Saturday night fcked one of my girls all day today. Got home intending to work on my personal business I am trying to grow.. But I am feeling so lazy ha ha.. Sx is hard work!
 

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Was being a hermit for a while. I decided make myself a little more of an extrovert this weekend. Breakfast with a co-worker friend then catching up with an old buddy from years past.

I am still surprised how easy it is to be social when I need to. Just put the effort in contacting people and they respond.
 

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Neighborhood block party on Friday night, went to bed

Worked in my garden and pressure washed my driveway Saturday, drank some wine and passed out watching SNL

Today, church, watched some baseball, went to the grocery store, replaced my windshield wipers

Thug Life
 

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This weekend, nothing but work. But, come Wednesday I will have 3 weeks off. I am taking scuba lessons next weekend. Very excited about that.

Life is great my friends. We are blessed, don't forget that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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