Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

What are you guys getting into this weekend?

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
So,

I'm sitting at home on a Friday night. working on my business. Everyone is out, people are in town, a few parties are going down. I'm saving money by switching to Geico and being productive (okay, I didn't really switch to Geico. what do I look like? Donald Trump? I got the bootleg insurance.). So since my only date tonight is with a word processor and a database, someone tell me about their awesome weekend adventure.

Speaking Gieco, check this out about the founder.

With his wife, Lillian, Mr. Goodwin worked 12 hours a day for little or no salary for several years to implement his business dream. In 1940, after operating in the red for several years, the company realized its first profit. In 1948, GEICO became publicly owned and today has assets of nearly $7.3 billion.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_Goodwin,_Sr.

BRB gonna find a wife who is willing to be broke for several years.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Scaramouche

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2008
Messages
4,440
Reaction score
1,558
Age
82
Location
Australia
Dear Warrior,
If you aint rich by 39 you never will be!
Me? This afternoon repairing a plates Mower...There will be a tangible fringe benefit there...then take my leading Lady Dancing till midnight...she will sleep over so start Sunday with a little Morning delight...not going to the limit though as I have to save it for another plate for whom I am repairing a Window that afternoon.
 

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
it's derby weekend. watching portland game now. derby tomorrow, then taking the son and the wife to see spiderman. then we're throwing a house party tomorrow night, then my son's birthday party sunday (his birthday is monday)
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
Scaramouche said:
Dear Warrior,
If you aint rich by 39 you never will be!
Me? This afternoon repairing a plates Mower...There will be a tangible fringe benefit there...then take my leading Lady Dancing till midnight...she will sleep over so start Sunday with a little Morning delight...not going to the limit though as I have to save it for another plate for whom I am repairing a Window that afternoon.
Phuck that noise. Anyway I'm going to be comfortable, not rich. And I can do that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Scaramouche

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2008
Messages
4,440
Reaction score
1,558
Age
82
Location
Australia
Dear Warrior,
Your aspirations are realistic...But reflect that all things are relative,the poorest slob on Welfare over here,in absolute terms,lives a far richer life than Elizabeth the first did in England five hundred years ago...but perhaps happiness and contentment is something you are born with!
 

MtnMan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2014
Messages
610
Reaction score
38
Location
Vermont
got a dinner date at mine lined up for monday, so i am taking the weekend off from going out. Working on clearing out an old orchard at my place, eating well, getting lots of sleep and hanging with some good friends.
Need a nice little reset!
 

MOTU

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2014
Messages
638
Reaction score
72
Location
Houston, TX
There is a festival in the old town area where I have an office, so some buddies and I took some coolers and a BBQ pit down yesterday morning before they close the streets and we are gonna go hang out in front of my office and drink beer and play giant jenga and see if we can chat up some hotties.

But first, I have to mow the yard and clean the pool filters.
 

Kailex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2010
Messages
2,072
Reaction score
190
Location
New Jersey
Hitting up NYC with my sister who is flying in for a few days for a medical conference. Having some dinner with her and then walking around town.

Tomorrow hitting up a local brewery with some friends and then later in the night, watching some WWE PPV event.

Not a bad weekend. Not the sexiest weekend, but that's what the weekdays are for.
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
Scaramouche said:
Dear Warrior,
Your aspirations are realistic...But reflect that all things are relative,the poorest slob on Welfare over here,in absolute terms,lives a far richer life than Elizabeth the first did in England five hundred years ago...but perhaps happiness and contentment is something you are born with!
Right. Rich is relative. I want to get off of this treadmill. I have never been more content then when I had a great market of freelance work, I made a good salary, I had a couple of girls, drinks and dinner with my boys and the money was just THERE for the taking. Even then I wanted to grow that business and do more. Now Id be happy just to get back there again.

I ended up finishing emails about three deals. Texted two clients proofs of their designs and wrote a script for a commercial. Then met a client for a drink and some pool. She wants the D but shes old, fat and entitled as shyt but I do need her to spend some money with me so I humor her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Desdinova

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2004
Messages
11,680
Reaction score
4,876
Tidying up the house today, going out with a few friends tonight. Tomorrow I have a date with a new chick I'm seeing. I'm taking her to the museum (I have a free pass for tomorrow) and then I'm gonna bring her back to my place and fvck the 5hit out of her. She's got a mediocre face, but her body is nice and she's fun as hell to be with.
 

guru1000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2007
Messages
5,299
Reaction score
4,338
Scaramouche said:
Dear Warrior,
If you aint rich by 39 you never will be!.
Nonsense. Material changes have to be made to change one's earning capacity. Sometimes these changes are sparked by a catalyst--usually a life-changing hardship.

Wealth is created the first 10- 15 years, followed by prudent investing.

Warrior, whether 39 or 55, if you believe you will financially prosper, you will. I started from scratch six years ago, following a financial disaster. I hold no professional licenses. I'm self-employed. And as life throws its hard balls, I throw them right back even harder.
 

Kailex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2010
Messages
2,072
Reaction score
190
Location
New Jersey

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
guru1000 said:
Nonsense. Material changes have to be made to change one's earning capacity. Sometimes these changes are sparked by a catalyst--usually a life-changing hardship.

Wealth is created the first 10- 15 years, followed by prudent investing.

Warrior, whether 39 or 55, if you believe you will financially prosper, you will. I started from scratch six years ago, following a financial disaster. I hold no professional licenses. I'm self-employed. And as life throws its hard balls, I throw them right back even harder.

Thanks for the vote of confidence. I'm fulfilling orders today and I just landed a video editing gig from a referral. It was a good productive weekend so I can't complain.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
won a good bit of money yesterday at the derby (see http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=213897). didn't take kid to the movies yesterday so he's all mad and **** lol so tomorrow i'm going to keep him out of school and spend the day with him. about to have his birthday party in 2 hours. i'm looking forward to it we're going to swimming
 
Joined
Jul 12, 2012
Messages
101
Reaction score
9
Friday worked, flew in Saturday night fcked one of my girls all day today. Got home intending to work on my personal business I am trying to grow.. But I am feeling so lazy ha ha.. Sx is hard work!
 

L B

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2004
Messages
526
Reaction score
9
Location
OC
Was being a hermit for a while. I decided make myself a little more of an extrovert this weekend. Breakfast with a co-worker friend then catching up with an old buddy from years past.

I am still surprised how easy it is to be social when I need to. Just put the effort in contacting people and they respond.
 

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,223
Location
The Dirty South
Neighborhood block party on Friday night, went to bed

Worked in my garden and pressure washed my driveway Saturday, drank some wine and passed out watching SNL

Today, church, watched some baseball, went to the grocery store, replaced my windshield wipers

Thug Life
 

Mr.Positive

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2007
Messages
1,855
Reaction score
99
This weekend, nothing but work. But, come Wednesday I will have 3 weeks off. I am taking scuba lessons next weekend. Very excited about that.

Life is great my friends. We are blessed, don't forget that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Top