"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What are you giving GF for xmas?
- Thread starter *******
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Remulak
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Charm&Style
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seriously...
i give her this gift every christmas, yet i enjoy it more than her :nervous:
flyinshark
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Funny how 2 people can mean the same exact thing, yet one will make it sound like something great and the other one can make it sound like crap, only by their choice of words. But i digress.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
THE_ADDMAN
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Cod3r said:
haha owned!
all about perception right?
DJinTraining06
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civility of returning the favor, not being an *******; esp. on x-mas.
She has ALOT more money than me right now, I want to give her what she wants and she's getting what she wants, I just don't have 899$ to spend lol, ebay is a nice solution ! Don't hate me lol
I agree, shezz is a one-dimensional cyborg... no disrespect tho
-Cod3r
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Thinking surprise flowers at her office, since they're already giving her the juice about who she's bringing to their married couples office party Sat.
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Give him a break - he is from england!mrRuckus said:
Seriously kids - christmas is a cultural thing and not A LOVER THING - something moderate is good enough - not cheap and not expensive!
DJ Coder is obviously pimping the hor who bought him a suit and a tie and not one, not two, but three shirts!!! Good Grief, charlie brown!!!!!
PRMoon
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Just pulling your chain kid, BTW I only fart when I drink!!Shezz said:
44 is actually young - I am not old - I am just older than most on this here sexual seduction, how do I get a hor forum!!! I am trying to enlighten the unelightened!! You are living in a hor paradise today and thus pimps know how to be the most succesful in this "how do I get a hor" field!!
I don't consider myself a pimp because that would lower my existence!!
however SHEZZ, my man, I look much younger than my years and can pickup 18 year old hors!!! And if I was in Hawaii - 14 is legal!!! Actually many Americans are horing at 12 years old!!! Obviously age doesn't matter for hors!!!!!! Fairly soon American women will be born hors!!!!
"For you young kids out there - if you want to get loose women (i.e.non-virgins = hors) then follow the old school pimps - the young ones have been diluted by the homo/hor agenda of the last 50 years!!!!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.