Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Cod3r said:White gold diamond heart earrings from Tiffany's....
She bought me an Armani suit and 3 shirts and a nice tie... least i can do...
Plus i got them shvts from Ebay... 299$ lol but shhhhhhhhhhh
-Cod3r
Shezz said:Girlfriend?? I presume by the term 'girlfriend' you mean a girl who's puzzy you are friends with?
Come on, please. Don't buy her a damn thing, text saying 'Merry Christmas love' and give her your c0ck as a present. Whilst all the other chumps are showering her with chocolates and perfume and ear-rings, give her something that she will remember forever...or at least the next hour.
She has ALOT more money than me right now, I want to give her what she wants and she's getting what she wants, I just don't have 899$ to spend lol, ebay is a nice solution ! Don't hate me lolYou guys r retarded - how u gonna screw over ur girlfriend especially after she bought an armani suit. If its a serious girlfriend then the u can at least have the
civility of returning the favor, not being an *******; esp. on x-mas.
I agree, shezz is a one-dimensional cyborg... no disrespect thoYou take this stuff way too far and look like tryhard.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Give him a break - he is from england!mrRuckus said:You take this stuff way too far and look like tryhard.
Just pulling your chain kid, BTW I only fart when I drink!!Shezz said:Haha i just got AMOG'ed by an Old fart. 44 and still cruising these forums? Your past your sell by date man. Go sarge a retirement castle.
Sarge On...:yes:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.