"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What are you giving GF for xmas?
- Thread starter *******
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Remulak
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Charm&Style
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seriously...
i give her this gift every christmas, yet i enjoy it more than her :nervous:
flyinshark
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Funny how 2 people can mean the same exact thing, yet one will make it sound like something great and the other one can make it sound like crap, only by their choice of words. But i digress.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
THE_ADDMAN
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Cod3r said:
haha owned!
all about perception right?
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civility of returning the favor, not being an *******; esp. on x-mas.
She has ALOT more money than me right now, I want to give her what she wants and she's getting what she wants, I just don't have 899$ to spend lol, ebay is a nice solution ! Don't hate me lol
I agree, shezz is a one-dimensional cyborg... no disrespect tho
-Cod3r
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
resilient
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Thinking surprise flowers at her office, since they're already giving her the juice about who she's bringing to their married couples office party Sat.
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Give him a break - he is from england!mrRuckus said:
Seriously kids - christmas is a cultural thing and not A LOVER THING - something moderate is good enough - not cheap and not expensive!
DJ Coder is obviously pimping the hor who bought him a suit and a tie and not one, not two, but three shirts!!! Good Grief, charlie brown!!!!!
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Just pulling your chain kid, BTW I only fart when I drink!!Shezz said:
44 is actually young - I am not old - I am just older than most on this here sexual seduction, how do I get a hor forum!!! I am trying to enlighten the unelightened!! You are living in a hor paradise today and thus pimps know how to be the most succesful in this "how do I get a hor" field!!
I don't consider myself a pimp because that would lower my existence!!
however SHEZZ, my man, I look much younger than my years and can pickup 18 year old hors!!! And if I was in Hawaii - 14 is legal!!! Actually many Americans are horing at 12 years old!!! Obviously age doesn't matter for hors!!!!!! Fairly soon American women will be born hors!!!!
"For you young kids out there - if you want to get loose women (i.e.non-virgins = hors) then follow the old school pimps - the young ones have been diluted by the homo/hor agenda of the last 50 years!!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.