"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What are you giving GF for xmas?

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Interested in knowing what you guys are giving the females in you lives for xmas and how long you've been involved.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A partridge in a pear tree!!!
 

Cod3r

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White gold diamond heart earrings from Tiffany's....

She bought me an Armani suit and 3 shirts and a nice tie... least i can do...

Plus i got them shvts from Ebay... 299$ lol but shhhhhhhhhhh



-Cod3r
 

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A Pearl necklace straight from Testicular & Co.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol @ Cash. What about some earrings and a tongue ring too?
 

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a free pass to under my bed sheets.


seriously...


i give her this gift every christmas, yet i enjoy it more than her :nervous:
 

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Way to quote Too $hort. He is a mad playa. Though some might say having as much bling as he, he doesnt have to be, hes a natural
 

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We're going to Niagara Falls for xmas and im paying her bus ticket, and that's my gift to her. Maybe it would sound nicer if i said that my gift to her is a nice trip to Niagara Falls, hehe. It sounds so different, yet it boils down to the same thing.

Funny how 2 people can mean the same exact thing, yet one will make it sound like something great and the other one can make it sound like crap, only by their choice of words. But i digress.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cod3r said:
White gold diamond heart earrings from Tiffany's....

She bought me an Armani suit and 3 shirts and a nice tie... least i can do...

Plus i got them shvts from Ebay... 299$ lol but shhhhhhhhhhh



-Cod3r

haha owned!

all about perception right? ;)
 

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My ex gf was a freak, we were only dating 6 months and she spent $450 bucks on me for xmas. An ipod, dvd's, clothes, god i dont even remember wat else but it was alot! I got wind from her firend that she was spending alot, so i was like damm i better spend more, so i spent $200 thinking i def spent as much as her. Thats crazy tho never again, next xmas that i have a gf im spending 100 tops and only if i been dating her a while.
 

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You guys r retarded - how u gonna screw over ur girlfriend especially after she bought an armani suit. If its a serious girlfriend then the u can at least have the
civility of returning the favor, not being an *******; esp. on x-mas.
 

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Girlfriend?? I presume by the term 'girlfriend' you mean a girl who's puzzy you are friends with?

Come on, please. Don't buy her a damn thing, text saying 'Merry Christmas love' and give her your c0ck as a present. Whilst all the other chumps are showering her with chocolates and perfume and ear-rings, give her something that she will remember forever...or at least the next hour.

You take this stuff way too far and look like tryhard.
 

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You guys r retarded - how u gonna screw over ur girlfriend especially after she bought an armani suit. If its a serious girlfriend then the u can at least have the
civility of returning the favor, not being an *******; esp. on x-mas.
She has ALOT more money than me right now, I want to give her what she wants and she's getting what she wants, I just don't have 899$ to spend lol, ebay is a nice solution ! Don't hate me lol

You take this stuff way too far and look like tryhard.
I agree, shezz is a one-dimensional cyborg... no disrespect tho


-Cod3r
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What about a girl who just became official after two months of dating? I see myself more are as the prize, so I don't think expensive gifts is necessary. Her bday party is this Friday too, so I don't want to go overboard.

Thinking surprise flowers at her office, since they're already giving her the juice about who she's bringing to their married couples office party Sat.
 
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mrRuckus said:
You take this stuff way too far and look like tryhard.
Give him a break - he is from england! :rolleyes:

Seriously kids - christmas is a cultural thing and not A LOVER THING - something moderate is good enough - not cheap and not expensive!
DJ Coder is obviously pimping the hor who bought him a suit and a tie and not one, not two, but three shirts!!! Good Grief, charlie brown!!!!!
 

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I'm seeing a few girls who are all buying me gifts. Since there's more then one and I'm trying to save for a house, I'm buying them all one or two gifts that are all priced under 20 dollars. Nice easy stuff that means a bunch but won't break my wallet.
 
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Shezz said:
Haha i just got AMOG'ed by an Old fart. 44 and still cruising these forums? Your past your sell by date man. Go sarge a retirement castle.

Sarge On...:yes:
Just pulling your chain kid, BTW I only fart when I drink!!

44 is actually young - I am not old - I am just older than most on this here sexual seduction, how do I get a hor forum!!! I am trying to enlighten the unelightened!! You are living in a hor paradise today and thus pimps know how to be the most succesful in this "how do I get a hor" field!!

I don't consider myself a pimp because that would lower my existence!!
however SHEZZ, my man, I look much younger than my years and can pickup 18 year old hors!!! And if I was in Hawaii - 14 is legal!!! Actually many Americans are horing at 12 years old!!! Obviously age doesn't matter for hors!!!!!! Fairly soon American women will be born hors!!!! :rolleyes:"

For you young kids out there - if you want to get loose women (i.e.non-virgins = hors) then follow the old school pimps - the young ones have been diluted by the homo/hor agenda of the last 50 years!!!!
 

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We both agreed not to get presents.

Christmas isn't my thing.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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